"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sosuave and its influence on my opinion of women

KontrollerX

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"Night Time Pimp was only 15 when he met the girl and 20 when they broke up. She was never a woman to begin with. She was a girl who had friends who behaved like that as NTP said. It just became more normal and acceptable for her."

She was a girl who the US government at that age would've deemed mature enough to operate a large vehicle on the highway which could kill a large number of people.

The immaturity argument you guys like to bring up to excuse women's transgressions I'm sorry just doesn't fly with me.

Its possible for a 35 year old woman to be more immature than a 15 year old and vice versa.

"I know you're a realist, and a lot of what you say is the harsh truth of reality but to say ALL woman will cheat is stretching it a bit don'tcha think?"

I never said ALL in either of my posts in this topic but I guess I do believe that because of our status as opportunistic animals that should the proper conditions arise any man or woman would cheat once again under the right circumstances regardless of the arbitrary morality codes they say they hold dear. Biology trumps morality codes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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