"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GaryUranga

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this is partially a situation Im in and something I dont get, so theres this HB8, not average at all, she really stands out becasue shes got that awesome fun personality, kinda shy, anyways I havent talked to her yet, I just noticed her a bit ago, I had seen her before but never payed much attention, she has a bf, the guy is like he ultimate anti-DJ his body language is crap he hunches a lot etc, I dont really know the guy but from what I can see just by readingt the body language, he isnt too suave, so, how is it possible that this guy can actually get that kind of girl?

When I see a couple I always try to figure out why theres attraction, but here I just dont get it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kegger

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HORMONES!!!

He is probably one of the few guys who had the guts to go up to her and ask her out. Also, both are probably horney as hell. I think you may have a chance with this one, best luck to you.

Kegger
 

GaryUranga

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I definetly have a chance, I get signals of interest from her, few stares and when Im talking to her friends she does the whole hair thing, anyways. Im not sure if its really hormones. Shes shy but pretty sociable, does that make sense?
 

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Yeah i know what you're talking about. My friend, he's so antisuave, ended up with an Hb8 with awesome personality. He cries in front of her, puts himself down, worships her, calls her like 20x a week, talks really loud in the phone when talking to her infront of people(to show off i guess) and a bunch of other stuff that will make the masterdj's puke. I usually stop by to practice my C+F and end up with some kino from his girl in front of him, pissing him off lol (no cruel intentions)

maybe the guy who approached the "hb8 with awesome personality" was Suave until he unconciously "settled"
 
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