"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sort of a weird subject

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Been seeing this girl for about 4 months now. We were together but had a falling out a month ago or so due to me hooking up with one of her sorority sisters (she found out after she started dating, but it still happened when i was hooking up with her). Out of spite, she got with one of my good friends, but it was just a hookup. (she doen't know I really ****ed her sorority sister.. oops :)

Anyways, I went away for 2 weeks on vacation and we weren't on best terms. We kept in touch (well she did, she called me almost everyday). She was hanging out with groups of people (dudes and gals), but to my knowledge never 1 on 1 with any guys. When I got back she was very affectionate, but not near as sexual. Another weird thing was that she said her lower abdomen was hurting (aka her uterus) and when we had sex she had to stop after 5min. Ontop of that, her lower stomach was like real swollen (i could feel it). Now, my gut instinct right there was telling me that some other dude probably railed her too hard while I was gone and shes too sore to have sex. I jokingly said, "what did you get gangbanged? And she replied, NO! I haven't had sex with anyone but you in 5 months!"

So maybe I'm just overthinking. But how can a girl be sore when she hasn't ****ed in 2 weeks?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Theres no way to tell without examining her, Black. It might be, it might not be.

I even heard a funny story about some dude who didnt have a condom, so he put some aluminum foil around his pecker and did his girl and scratched her all up and it got infected in there.

She's sick. so she needs medical attention.
Encourage her to go and get it examined. It could be serious.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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