KockyMcGoodstroke
Don Juan
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- Jan 19, 2010
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Good morning everybody, your boy here needs some encouragement. I've been going through a situation with a girl for a while now and it's frustrating....and I feel average.....and like a chump.
So we work together(big boo boo I know), and we started flirting a lot. Eventually we went out on a few dates and I tried to kiss her but she resisted. Then we would still go out occasionally and flirt a lot at work. I'm talking about kissing her neck, smelling, touching and stuff.
She would barely pick up the phone but we would text out of work. When I'm not at work I'd get a text from her every now n then saying she missed me n stuff, and I'd either not reply, or just say something slick.
After a while she went cold and wouldn't respond to texts, calls, or anything, but would still play touchy feely at work. Then I ignored her for a while and she warmed back up. A few weeks ago I got fed up after she flaked on me and decided to walk away. I didn't call and ignored her at work for about 2 weeks. Then she finally came to me and admitted she liked me and I didn't punk out I just smiled n gave her a lil kiss on the forehead n walked away. Later on we went in her car n I kissed on her neck n stuff n ended up kissing on the lips and going into her bra. We had one more date after that last week and then shes starting to cool down again.
I see her talking to other guys and stuff but I'm always trying to maintain the attitude of "she will make the right choice". I did talk to her yesterday and said something to the effect of I know you like me and you know how I feel about you, so wheres this gonna go?? To which she replied that she doesnt think she's ready for a relationship just yet. I replied that I just want to get to know who she is, and I wasn't talking about a relationship. Afterwards I felt like I may have been giving off some type of needy vibe that I didn't want to.
I did mention that I wanted to go to this valentines day concert and she said she wanted to go too but her aunt said she shouldn't go alone. I was just like hmmm interesting with a little smile but didn't ask her.
I'd like to go with her but at the same time I don't feel she deserves it, given the way she acts. The biggest problem is that I feel as though I'm walking on eggshells with her. I know she likes me and is holding back because of her past "hurt" but I don't have time to play bs games. I have been focusing on my school, my life, and improving myself and I know that I'm a great guy. I have a lot going for me and it sickens me a little when I think how I'm letting myself become around her. At this point I'm not sure what to do but I definitely know that I do deserve good things. She has a kid as well which is why she might be hesitant, but either way she needs to tighten up.
So we work together(big boo boo I know), and we started flirting a lot. Eventually we went out on a few dates and I tried to kiss her but she resisted. Then we would still go out occasionally and flirt a lot at work. I'm talking about kissing her neck, smelling, touching and stuff.
She would barely pick up the phone but we would text out of work. When I'm not at work I'd get a text from her every now n then saying she missed me n stuff, and I'd either not reply, or just say something slick.
After a while she went cold and wouldn't respond to texts, calls, or anything, but would still play touchy feely at work. Then I ignored her for a while and she warmed back up. A few weeks ago I got fed up after she flaked on me and decided to walk away. I didn't call and ignored her at work for about 2 weeks. Then she finally came to me and admitted she liked me and I didn't punk out I just smiled n gave her a lil kiss on the forehead n walked away. Later on we went in her car n I kissed on her neck n stuff n ended up kissing on the lips and going into her bra. We had one more date after that last week and then shes starting to cool down again.
I see her talking to other guys and stuff but I'm always trying to maintain the attitude of "she will make the right choice". I did talk to her yesterday and said something to the effect of I know you like me and you know how I feel about you, so wheres this gonna go?? To which she replied that she doesnt think she's ready for a relationship just yet. I replied that I just want to get to know who she is, and I wasn't talking about a relationship. Afterwards I felt like I may have been giving off some type of needy vibe that I didn't want to.
I did mention that I wanted to go to this valentines day concert and she said she wanted to go too but her aunt said she shouldn't go alone. I was just like hmmm interesting with a little smile but didn't ask her.
I'd like to go with her but at the same time I don't feel she deserves it, given the way she acts. The biggest problem is that I feel as though I'm walking on eggshells with her. I know she likes me and is holding back because of her past "hurt" but I don't have time to play bs games. I have been focusing on my school, my life, and improving myself and I know that I'm a great guy. I have a lot going for me and it sickens me a little when I think how I'm letting myself become around her. At this point I'm not sure what to do but I definitely know that I do deserve good things. She has a kid as well which is why she might be hesitant, but either way she needs to tighten up.