"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Brian20o2

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OK I am out of shape. And I started working out this week after school. 3 times a week. I was wondering about being sore. Ive heard that if your sore for 1-3 days after a wokout it means your getting stonger but I also heard that being sore a day or 3 after is damage to the muscle tissue that weakens it and doesnt grow back stronger. Or it could just be that Im out of shape and it will take my body a little to heal and regrow.

Anybody know anything about this? I really wanna bulk up and get stronger for next football season and dont wanna hurt myself working out. I will ask the workout coach on monday also.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Potbelly

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Try chugging a protein shake after workout. I vaguely remember reading somewhere about that lessening soreness. It has worked for me.
 

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You're just starting out, being sore is acceptable. It'll pass in a couple of weeks, as long as you have proper rest & nutrition.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Heart Break Kid

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I used to get sore for 2-3 days. Now I usually have a little one-two day sore which feels good.

What I do:
- 5 mg Creatine
- Stretch pre-workout
- Stretch post-workout
- Whey Protein

Hope that helps a little!
 

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Being sore doesn't mean enything other than that the muscle fibers has been damaged. It's not an indicator of getting bigger or how effective a workout is. When I was squatting 5x5 three times a week with a bill starr routine, I never got sore. Yet my legs grew faster than ever before.
 
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