"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brian20o2

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OK I am out of shape. And I started working out this week after school. 3 times a week. I was wondering about being sore. Ive heard that if your sore for 1-3 days after a wokout it means your getting stonger but I also heard that being sore a day or 3 after is damage to the muscle tissue that weakens it and doesnt grow back stronger. Or it could just be that Im out of shape and it will take my body a little to heal and regrow.

Anybody know anything about this? I really wanna bulk up and get stronger for next football season and dont wanna hurt myself working out. I will ask the workout coach on monday also.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Try chugging a protein shake after workout. I vaguely remember reading somewhere about that lessening soreness. It has worked for me.
 

[S]alvatore

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You're just starting out, being sore is acceptable. It'll pass in a couple of weeks, as long as you have proper rest & nutrition.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I used to get sore for 2-3 days. Now I usually have a little one-two day sore which feels good.

What I do:
- 5 mg Creatine
- Stretch pre-workout
- Stretch post-workout
- Whey Protein

Hope that helps a little!
 

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Being sore doesn't mean enything other than that the muscle fibers has been damaged. It's not an indicator of getting bigger or how effective a workout is. When I was squatting 5x5 three times a week with a bill starr routine, I never got sore. Yet my legs grew faster than ever before.
 
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