She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Well to make things clear Sophmores are the absolute yongest that I go for, I have this rule 1year yonger to 1year older. Next I like shield analogy, it seems to be the case. thanks for you insight thanks for everyone's insight.Tekniq said:Personally i think you should have some sense of self worth and go for some females who are your own age. The major plus is that they are usually on the same intellectual plane as you are and will much easier relate to your problems. You will find that yes these girls seem that much more available but they are not worth it, it is during the summer of sophomore to junior year that the majority of girls blossom and gain a certain stronger sense of free-will that lets them try more things. This is a major plus; because just think logically the girl mentally grows and becomes more mature (which is all well and good if you want to have some nice thought talks) but also the girl will be more ready to experiment with you in more sensual ways. With age the whole prudish quality that some girls posses just magically drops out.
My next point is that many a young ladies are not interested in relationships at that young age, they have no need for any emotional support that is caused by the stresses of life that they have yet to experience. Your most important job is (if you really want sophomore girls in your junior year) to apply yourself directly to the ideals of being a DJ. Younger prudish girls are just as bad stuck up little trust fund babies; in terms of their initial shields are harder than most to break. Contrary to popular belief underclassman are not always easier but of their immediate skepticism of you and the game you are trying to play on them.
Last point i have is in terms of academics a girl your own age will never be a bad choice, simply because they do the same home/test/class work you do. From personal experiance i can safely say that when you enter a relationship(friendship or intimate) you will be rewarded with the girls trust. Personally i use that trust to my advantage and find myself doing much less work than usual to keep getting high grades.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.