Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Well to make things clear Sophmores are the absolute yongest that I go for, I have this rule 1year yonger to 1year older. Next I like shield analogy, it seems to be the case. thanks for you insight thanks for everyone's insight.Tekniq said:Personally i think you should have some sense of self worth and go for some females who are your own age. The major plus is that they are usually on the same intellectual plane as you are and will much easier relate to your problems. You will find that yes these girls seem that much more available but they are not worth it, it is during the summer of sophomore to junior year that the majority of girls blossom and gain a certain stronger sense of free-will that lets them try more things. This is a major plus; because just think logically the girl mentally grows and becomes more mature (which is all well and good if you want to have some nice thought talks) but also the girl will be more ready to experiment with you in more sensual ways. With age the whole prudish quality that some girls posses just magically drops out.
My next point is that many a young ladies are not interested in relationships at that young age, they have no need for any emotional support that is caused by the stresses of life that they have yet to experience. Your most important job is (if you really want sophomore girls in your junior year) to apply yourself directly to the ideals of being a DJ. Younger prudish girls are just as bad stuck up little trust fund babies; in terms of their initial shields are harder than most to break. Contrary to popular belief underclassman are not always easier but of their immediate skepticism of you and the game you are trying to play on them.
Last point i have is in terms of academics a girl your own age will never be a bad choice, simply because they do the same home/test/class work you do. From personal experiance i can safely say that when you enter a relationship(friendship or intimate) you will be rewarded with the girls trust. Personally i use that trust to my advantage and find myself doing much less work than usual to keep getting high grades.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.