"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sooooo...This chick didn't text me back...

khussa28

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yes the technical problem excuse seems rather lame, i think she probably just sees you as a friend, just dont expect anything from her. Just carry on normal, spin plates, enjoy life, play it cool and dont think too much of it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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perseverance

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Your best bet would be to carry on about your business and not give this chick a second thought because it doesn't sound like she's giving you a single thought either.
 

Blue Hef

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pdx1138 said:
It's extremely rare to not recieve texts back due to a REAL technical problem.

She might even be lying about it / changed her mind about you if her other option dropped off.

The other posters could have easily been correct on this one.

More often than not a girl is not interested, not having phone problems.
I mean, this may be true, but why would she take the time to grab someones else's phone and write a big ass paragraph, then sends me a "wink" face and says she can't wait to see me at work if she "wasn't interested"? You boys need to start thinking logicaly instead of tryna hate and down talk situations...these are obviously all the AFC's in here, because i can't see myself going into someones thread doing all of this sh*t...It isn't my fault you dudes aren't getting any action (especially you old 45 year old cats, i kinda feel sorry for you dudes)
 
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Blue Hef said:
I mean, this may be true, but why would she take the time to grab someones else's phone and write a big ass paragraph, then sends me a "wink" face and says she can't wait to see me at work if she "wasn't interested"? You boys need to start thinking logical instead of tryna hate and downtown situations...these are obviously all the AFC's in here, because i can't see myself going into someones thread doing all of this sh*t...It isn't my fault you dudes aren't getting any action (especially you old 45 year old cats, i kinda feel sorry for you dudes)
She might well be interested, we can only go by what you tell us or don't tell us as the case maybe.

There's only one way to find out isn't there?
 
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