"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Soooo now what?

chiraag2000

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I was hanging with friends last night, and this girl was there too. i started just being my self. loud and obnoxious ha. well sumhow we started flirting. and she kept hitting me. i couldve sworn she liked me. but i didnt get her number cuz im not used to picking up girls and i didnt even intend on making her like me but sumhow she did. i did get her number from my friend today.... now what?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kirro

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I'd tell you to do whatever the hell you please but I know that will just lead to yet another AFC-esque topic "asking where did I go wrong etc".

I'll assume you wanna see where this goes.

So here's some generic advice to set you on your way.

Call her on sunday. That way it makes you seem like you have a life.

Do not. DO NOT text!

Convo should be less than 10 minutes, you have a life yeah?

You throw in some more of that loud, obnoxious stuff that got her interested, you flirt, take her out for a walk or an action date & you escalate.

If she flakes, you can either give her a second chance or play cricket rules & once she hits that wicket once she's out.

If she shows up & you're having fun by you being sexual & escalating you should be getting some tongue action. After that its up to you & how far you wanna take it.

Then you report back here.
 

Ease

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Text her say hi why not.

Say 'hey its chiraag2000 i got your number from my friend faggot500'
 

Chromeo

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men dont have time for text converstations, they have time to make a 2 minute phone call thats it, because your two busy closing a million dollar business deal, fixing the twisted drive shaft on your hemi, or finishing all over the girls face thats currently in your bed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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zekko

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men dont have time for text converstations, they have time to make a 2 minute phone call thats it, because your two busy closing a million dollar business deal, fixing the twisted drive shaft on your hemi, or finishing all over the girls face thats currently in your bed.
You can have a text conversation in less than two minutes. When you get bored or want to quit you just stop replying. I don't get the aversion to texting around here.
 
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