"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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soon to be divorced girl calls me up.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by dietzcoi
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Where have you been?

Dietzcoi
I have been living brother, "LIVING"!!!! Yes, I do have a life outside of my keyboard. I need to start posting threads instead of posting replies to desperate cries for help!
 

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Originally posted by 00Kevin

Anyway, I wouldn't mind banging her again because she is really hot, but this situation is far to complex for me to deal with.

What a dumb ass chick. I think this girl is always going to be damaged goods now.
So bang her , or don't bang her just don't waste my time by fcuking posting about it.
 
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