i don't know why, but i just don't see myself having sex with random girls no matter how hot they are...can someone enlighten me on this?!?!...i feel like i should only be having sex with one girl and believe me i don't even go to church. can someone persuade me into having sex with manny different women...i know this topic sounds weird but yeah = /
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
somone hit me with a baseball bat!!!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
6-heads lewis
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sorry, you just suck, not much anyone can do.
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Be you. Live your own reality. Why do you care if some guys like to fck random girls? They are living there own reality and are apparently enjoying it. If you deem this type of thing immoral then simply don't do it as I know many men who stay virgin until they are married. Women don't define a man. And Ironically the more people in the 'game' think they do, the less they get laid LOL. The end all goal is too seek peace and contentment with oneself. And if anyone thinks they are going to reach that point by ONLY fcking *****es then they are surely fooling themselves.
persiangino said:Be you. Live your own reality. Why do you care if some guys like to fck random girls? They are living there own reality and are apparently enjoying it. If you deem this type of thing immoral then simply don't do it as I know many men who stay virgin until they are married. Women don't define a man. And Ironically the more people in the 'game' think they do, the less they get laid LOL. The end all goal is too seek peace and contentment with oneself. And if anyone thinks they are going to reach that point by ONLY fcking *****es then they are surely fooling themselves.
Good advice, IMHO.
Summed it up.
Vagrant... would I be able to use aluminum? or cork? Or just foam? And would you pay for travel expenses to get to your house, so I could hit you with said bat, or would I have to foot the bill myself?
I could give you a virtual punch... if you wanted...:box: and kick you in the butt:kick: and threaten you menacingly with a bat :trouble: but that's probably the best I can do for now.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MisterNigma
Don Juan
**CRACK** :trouble:
I don't know, maybe i'm wrong, but to me it seems that you're a virgin.
Once you get laid once, you want it again, and again and again... as much as possible
or
Maybe you just don't have as much of a sex drive, which isn't so bad either.
-E.Nigma
P.S. - I would prefer to shoot you with a bb gun.
I don't know, maybe i'm wrong, but to me it seems that you're a virgin.
Once you get laid once, you want it again, and again and again... as much as possible
or
Maybe you just don't have as much of a sex drive, which isn't so bad either.
-E.Nigma
P.S. - I would prefer to shoot you with a bb gun.
aaah...that was the bat i was looking for...= )...i'am very happy with my girl even though she wants to have sex when she turns 23 or 21...i doubt that though cuz she said we would only do oral when she turns 18 (she's 16), but each night whenever we were at her couch watching television, i get to do more things with her. it's funny and unbelievable cuz we were doing things while her two brother were in the same room (living room) and her parents inside their room. we'd kiss and stuff like that when they're not looking. her brother sleeps on the other couch and when he does that's when i'd work my magic using eye contact. i already knew i could get her wet by giving her a stare that i want to f*ck her and that's how i'd start things out. anyways her parents are very very strict, but there were times that i made her feel so hot while we were on the couch that i got to convinced her to do more. like i made her feel something really good (my tounge to be exact) and then i stopped. while she was layin on the couch i pulled her pants down, i guess when i did that she frozed or something. i took my mouth closer as if i was going to do it and i saw her mouth opened so i went for it. i had to stop cuz i didn't want to get caught. but then i told her tomorrow morning before going to school we can do it in the my car for an hour and she agreed. we've been doin it ever since and i love it. she was mad a little cuz she wanted to do that when she turn 18 cuz she didn't want to feel like a slut. anyways i'm in that situation where this girl wouldn't give a ******* though i'm close to getting her to do it. i'm not forcing her but she's getting comfortable each day with me, but told me she really don't want to do it cuz it just doesn't look right to her but she said she might. also the sex part where i have to wait for years and i'm already turning 20, and yes i'am a virgin. i just fell in love with this girl and i can't see myself doing another girl. and then i come here and i read people having sex with 50 different girls. i'm thinking why i can't do that. people say you're too young and you should be getting serious when you turn 25. anyways i don't really know what i want to get out of this conversation. i guess deep inside all i wanted to do is f*ck my girl but i just can't do it cuz she said she wanted to do it when she's older and i don't want to get her to do it now though she said she was thinkin how it would be like if i'll try to just put it inside for 3 seconds...lol...for me getting a girl isn't the hardest thing because girls love guys too and for me to approach them is already a dream come true for them. so far i've learned that you have to be a mix of everything to have girls be really attracted to you. and if you can be mix of everything, if you can adopt to everything at any situation you're really really on the right track. but i think i have too much respect. at least for my girl i do. ugh!~ i really want to do it with her real bad. and i guess when i said someone please hit me with a baseball bat, i'm really saying please tell me it's okay for me to bang my girl even when she said she wanted me to wait till she turns 21. i sound like a wuss i know but uuuuuuuhhh...someone please hit me with a baseball bat!!!!!!!!!! GRRRRRRR!persiangino said:Be you. Live your own reality. Why do you care if some guys like to fck random girls? They are living there own reality and are apparently enjoying it. If you deem this type of thing immoral then simply don't do it as I know many men who stay virgin until they are married. Women don't define a man. And Ironically the more people in the 'game' think they do, the less they get laid LOL. The end all goal is too seek peace and contentment with oneself. And if anyone thinks they are going to reach that point by ONLY fcking *****es then they are surely fooling themselves.
okay i guess it's how everyone grew up. tell you the truth at my situation i wish i was like other guys who can just f*ck whoever they can. i masturbate a lot and i know i've never had sex but i'm sure as hell that i'll love it 24/7.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
no i'm 19 and she's 16. my bday's april and her's may. i don't really see it as a big gap especially cuz i look younger than her and even she tells me. don't think she's not hot though cuz that girl just came out of the oven...HOT!...and don't think she's those type that looks really really young cuz this girl is really mature physically and mentally. well not exactly mentally but whocares. i'm 19 and it feels like it was just yesterday when i was 16 myself. plus 17 is a legal age here in ny hehe if you know what i mean. = )HolyG said:wtf? you're 20 and she's 16?