"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sometimes Stop to View Your Life

SmooveMooves

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Yooo,

Rough patch for me lately,

And I don't necessarily just mean with women, but in other aspects if life as well.

Sometimes we just get caught in the flow, we forget to live.

Its as if we're running on treadmills
Or sitting at lvl 50 not prestiging.

School. Work. Workout.

Rinse. Wash. Repeat.

Recently, I just stopped, I took a few days off from everything and put my life into perspective. I remembered some old passions and reignited them. I hung out with some old friends, I set some new goals, I feel awesome despite feeling under the weather.

Humans crave progression, we must be constantly moving, always improving.(I should be a rapper LOL)

But seriously, Life is very, very short.

The next day is not promised.

Don't forget to live & take those risks.

If you have the opportunity to try something new, take it. In the end your life sums up to two things:

The experiences and memories you possessed and shared.

And How your life affected others.

A survey was done which asked Elders: "If they could live their life again, would they change anything?"

To which the number one responses were:

"I wish I lived more and worked less"

"I wish I enjoyed friends and family more and the finer things in life"

So ask yourself these three questions:

Are you where you want to be in life?
If not, are you moving toward you aspirations?
What will you do once you get there?

I'll give you the answer to the last one, Keep Going.

~Smoove
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CaptainSaveAh0

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Good Post OP.

Make sure you are always doing what makes you happy, not anyone else.

I really need to do the same thing you are doing ASAP.
 

nousername

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Yeah man.

I made myself homeless, and have been in the worst area of my life the past 3 years, and only now are things looking up. I have no family, no friends, ex-gf cheated with my "brother" and "best-mate". It almost drove me to jump in-front of a train. And before all this i was the most popular guy in my school, jacked, got any woman i wanted. It's crazy how life changes.

For every dark night, there's always a sunny bright day the following morning.

It's usually the most successful, happiest people that have been through some of the most unimaginable bad things.

I believe you only get what you put in, in life. If you aren't setting goals and achieving them don't expect to be anywhere.

Arnolds 6 rules of success are GREAT.

<3
 
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