"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sometimes it just feels so fvcking hopeless

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Livefree whats your point
Bunch of Cuck-Muricans and a woman giving a Chinese kid advice... wonderful. Have any of the rest of you been to SIngapore? Dated Singapore women in Singapore? Hail from an Asian family? No one here is qualified to give this kid any fcking advice on how to get women.


0:01 Truth from the Woman's Federation of China.


0:26 for the ultimate truth.

Can any of you relate to this in Murica? Nope, both women and men there are under some bvllsh1t delusion that women carry any sort of value into a relationship after 25.


4:10 Speaking from experience as a happily married man, go meet a girl that hauls bricks for a living, no game, no issues, no problems. Alternatively you can go the Amurican way and try and meet some spoiled b1tch who needs you to play head games to get her to agree to a date. Chick in that video has ONE fcvkin hand and she does 100% more work than any western woman I know. Meet just one hard working woman and you'll never need to date again.

School does not qualify as 'hard work'. The ability to attend school is a luxury for the upper classes. You want to be a real knight in shining Armour? Date 3 to 5 levels below your class. Sometimes it just feels so fvcking hopeless if you try and date within your own class or one higher than you. Been there, done that.

livefree finds dates at chinese homeless shelters

lolz jk bro i feel what your saying...these spoiled western bishes mayne...standards are outta control
 

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I get your point live free but I think even in Singapore women àrent attracted to desperate unhappy men.
 

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Who do you want as the mother of your children?

Option #1.
Stupid
Incredibly Spoiled
Covered in tattoos
Safe Space Advocating
Lives in a nice house
Has sex whenever she feels like it
Chooses thugs and 'bad guys' to get her rocks off
Never had a job beyond barista, quit when it wasn't 'fun' anymore
In your face personality, highly opinionated
Spends extra time listening to pop stars or playing on facebook
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Option #2.
Streetwise
Never had anything, hardly has enough to provide for her parents and siblings at the end of the day.
No welfare system to support her family, lives in a shack with all her brothers and
sisters.
Thinks tattoos are a boy's thing.
Lives in a house the size of your closet
Virgin
Dreams about marrying a decent guy and having a baby
Taught to work since she could stand.
Quiet, shy.
Spends extra time sleeping or studying

These are not fictional characters either, I'm describing two women I know, personally.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Guess it's my nature I have a buck each way on this one. I'm with live 3x in that I can't understand anyone who can't get laid when they've got all of Asia on their doorstep. But I also think that having tight game is something to aspire to. And so the local princesses present a worthy challenge. However surely there is a halfway house. My mate likes Thai girls in, dated a number of them while in Singapore and is now married to one. Singapore is like a candy store if you like Asian girls there is pick and mix from all over the region. There's any number of beautiful por girls working as housemaids in restaurants etc. If the 5s don't do it for you why not find an immigrant girl who is an 8?

Now I'm out. If somebody can't find a way forward from the amount of advice on this thread it's likely they have psych issues and no amount of advice will help.
 
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