"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cod3r

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I dunno about some of you guys, but when you're confidence isn't peak and yet you still get alot of attention, life seriously sucks...

I got opened 2x's today (did #close another girl tho) and just no drive at all to even try, I dunno if its confidence or just a lack of whatever, its actually starting to frustrate me now. It would be cool if i was ugly or something and girls just ignored me but when ur opened constantly and don't act...

We've got a problem... i dunno wats goin on, definitely not scared... juss nothing there

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Could it be lack of testosterone, or lack of rest ?? I average 4 hours of sleep a night.... I sex my girl up every other day and sometimes only on the weekends and its enough for me, all the other times i walk around like a sloth... no real sexual drive for most females, no hunger or ahhhrghhhh type of thing... like i'm numb or something, medical ?? psych ?? whaaa ?


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're on crack, son. Get real.

Oh, and sleep two or three more hours might let you wake up a bit.
 

Cod3r

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it's called get a life...............
I'm pretty sure I have one... but i'll check again

You're on crack, son. Get real.

Oh, and sleep two or three more hours might let you wake up a bit.
Yeah sleep would be nice, I have 10 pages of cultural anthropology bs to write before I even think about rest, that'll be a 4 am bedtime for me, nawcee


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