"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something's wrong with Her

Politoad

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I have this girl i like. But i'd like to understand her before i do anything. She's dated before in high school but her boyfriend cheated on her. Since then she's been single and has never dated. Why is this? (she's been single for like 6 years now)

She feels uncomfortable when men touch her. Like whats the psychology behind this?

Help a brother out guys?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Maximus Rex

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She Might Be a Headcase

She might just be a straight up head case to which I would advise leave her alone. However, she just might be guarding her feelings as to avoid being hurt. Your job is build enough rapport and comfort with her as to where she'll feel comfortable enough to lower her defenses and allow you to pimp accordingly.
 

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You'll need to give a bit more information than that.

Are you friends? Does she know you exist? Older? Younger? Have you ever spoken?
 
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