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horaholic

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Bluesteak said:
Shes getting free/ discounted Buds because of this guy. My old oneitis is currently going out with a drug dealer, Im almost positive shes with him because he supplies her with all the bud she could ever want.

Forget the weed, if she's horing for anything, its the ink. Tattoo artists are like rock stars as it is. Chicks flock to them. Its entirely possible that this guy has already banged her, and sent her packing, and she's just trying to get with him. You guys are assuming this guy even wants her. Either way its not ok on her part, and the OP deserves better than once a month sex, and scandalous behaviour.

Oh, and everyone needs to quit putting potheads in the same category as drug addicts. I'd much rather be with a pothead, than an alcoholic, and I dont even touch weed.

Trajhenkhet01 said:
Another sign to watch out for is if she is sick a lot. Like throwing up and complaining about her stomach not feeling good all the time. Unless she has a known ulcer that usually means her guts are getting busted out. Its not one sign your looking for, its a set.
What in gods name is that supposed to mean? Is that a joke? I hope so.
 

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horaholic said:
Oh, and everyone needs to quit putting potheads in the same category as drug addicts. I'd much rather be with a pothead, than an alcoholic, and I dont even touch weed..

I use greens on a daily basis, not saying hes a drug attic, he just sells/uses weed, x, and some yayo.
 

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Bluesteak said:
I use greens on a daily basis, not saying hes a drug attic, he just sells/uses weed, x, and some yayo.
I wasnt referring to you about the pothead comment. As far as your comment, I was just saying its more likely she wants free tattoos than weed.
 

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ahahah i laugh how some of you people jump to the she's cheating bit
juan i say you confront about these sudden changes ask things lke with the computer "whats that there honey" but all in all i say confront face to face then decide if shes lieing

p.s pot is worse then people think
 

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(I'm not interested in hearing people's opinions on "druggies".)

I'm trying hard not to jump to conclusions here, to give her the benefit of the doubt, so I've been trying to shrug off whatever suspicions I had. Earlier this evening, she was texting someone back and forth for about an hour. She kept whoever she was texting hidden, but at some point I glanced over and saw that whoever it was, is just a phone number. No name.

Normally I'm all about privacy, and being trustful, but she's just not been herself. Not completely off. Just too much in one direction. Anyway, when I went on the computer after she went to bed, I tried figuring out her account password.

I know, I know... :nono:

I looked at her internet history, and it's practically all been clothing websites that she spends hours and hours on. All except for earlier today, she was on this guy's Myspace page, checking out his pictures. She only checked out a few pics from his tattoo portfolio, and all of the pictures he's got up of himself.

So I dunno. It could all be harmless. Or not.

I've decided to act clueless for now, and give it time. I'll keep an eye on her. If I'm wrong, awesome, but I've already prepared for the worst. I've got another place ready to move into at a moments notice, and I still have a bunch of stuff still unpacked from when we moved.

If she's into this guy, this'll give her a chance to properly fall in love with him before I pull the pull. We have too many mutual friends, and I don't want to look like the bad guy here. My name isn't attached to anything I can't easily get out of, so it'll be a clean cut on my part.

As for the guy, and whether or not he'd be interested in her, I've seen the girls he can pull, and they're mostly out of my range, but I've heard of at least one average looking girl he's been accused of stalking. He's nothing special as far as being a tattooist. Just another Ed Hardy wannabe. I doubt he has groupies.
 

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You should **** her until she's to tired to go anywhere else. And start spicing things up a bit, like just have a midget jump out of the closet. Crazy **** like that. Ya know??
 

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Good deal that you are ready to bail. Try coming up behind her quietly when she's texting and see her reaction. If freaked out, she's riding the balogna pony.
 
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Juan Schwartz said:
(I'm not interested in hearing people's opinions on "druggies".)

I'm trying hard not to jump to conclusions here, to give her the benefit of the doubt, so I've been trying to shrug off whatever suspicions I had. Earlier this evening, she was texting someone back and forth for about an hour. She kept whoever she was texting hidden, but at some point I glanced over and saw that whoever it was, is just a phone number. No name.

Normally I'm all about privacy, and being trustful, but she's just not been herself. Not completely off. Just too much in one direction. Anyway, when I went on the computer after she went to bed, I tried figuring out her account password.

I know, I know... :nono:

I looked at her internet history, and it's practically all been clothing websites that she spends hours and hours on. All except for earlier today, she was on this guy's Myspace page, checking out his pictures. She only checked out a few pics from his tattoo portfolio, and all of the pictures he's got up of himself.

So I dunno. It could all be harmless. Or not.

I've decided to act clueless for now, and give it time. I'll keep an eye on her. If I'm wrong, awesome, but I've already prepared for the worst. I've got another place ready to move into at a moments notice, and I still have a bunch of stuff still unpacked from when we moved.

If she's into this guy, this'll give her a chance to properly fall in love with him before I pull the pull. We have too many mutual friends, and I don't want to look like the bad guy here. My name isn't attached to anything I can't easily get out of, so it'll be a clean cut on my part.

As for the guy, and whether or not he'd be interested in her, I've seen the girls he can pull, and they're mostly out of my range, but I've heard of at least one average looking girl he's been accused of stalking. He's nothing special as far as being a tattooist. Just another Ed Hardy wannabe. I doubt he has groupies.
And this is why he stayed away for 3 years. Too blind to admit the truth to himself even though he knows it on a gut level.


Self esteem so low he doesn't even know what to do. Look at how he views the tattoo dude.

He didn't learn a dam thing when he was here.
 

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Dude ask urself this in one years time do u c urself still with this girl......scratch that do u c urself happy being with this girl in one years time?

R u happy with ur relationship right now, could u do this every single day?

Could u stand for this to get worst?

if u answer no to one of these questions for u to b happy u got to make a serious change in ur relationship or leave it in my opinion.
 

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Sorry man, But if she is hiding **** from you something is up.

Use the Schwartz to kick her a$$ to the curb. I use to smoke pot and had girlfriends who smoked pot. But, then they go to some guys house that you don't know or may not like to get their fix.

Or when I did smoke my best friend sold so, my gf's would get it just from him. But, I dought you have a trust worthy friend that sells pot...

You may not care for the fact she smokes. But, like everyone who does drugs. They gotta get it somewhere and somehow. Which, is the downfall...

I cannot tell you if she is cheating or not.

How often does she go to this guys house?

How long does she stay at this guys house?

Have you seen the bags she gets from this guy?

Does she let you know she goes over there?

Does she get dressed up to go get weed?

Things like this could answer some questions.
 

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"(I'm not interested in hearing people's opinions on "druggies".)"

When you put up any topic asking for advice you are going to get the opinions that you are going to get.

You just have to deal with that.

In anycase my opinion is you need to watch TheRealSupreme's youtube video that he made for you.

Watch it over and over and over again until you finally learn your lesson.

Also don't get mad at Supreme for telling you the truth.

The man just wants to help you so take in all the things that he says and understand that he is telling the truth to you.
 

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unless you wake up taller , with the urge to get tons of tattoos and start smoking weed with her.... she just isn't going to be interested anymore.
and if you do wake up wanting to get the tats and smoke the herb, she will just be annoyed that you are copycatting the other guy.

regardless of the fact that you should not have to change yourself or your habits/hobbys.... the zest of this relationship doesn't have anymore zing to it.

go out that and find someone that just can't get enough of you.
find someone who thinks you are their drug!
 

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TheRealSupreme said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IwybUfKK1tY

In answer to juan.

Yesterdays video show:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XZtMl_l-Ojk



1. I doubt that your going to listen. Your the type that settles for the first hot chick that comes along as can be seen by settling for this loser. You will defend her to the death because you can't accept the fact that your a loser also.

2. I said loser because you settled for one. You didn't have enough confidence in yourself to get a good chick who doesn't smoke.

3. Your also a loser because you allow sex one time a month? I know your gonna defend it and say it's only lately. Well it never happens in my life.

4. Guys like you are kind of funny to watch when you show back up on the site. You already know the truth but you want to hear it from others. Look at your post. You even stated what she likes in men tall..ect ect...all of your fears that you know are either happening or as you want to believe going to happen.

5. Your still a loser for wanting to even save what is already dead. She can't stand frucking you. She has to wait long periods before she can even stomach you inside of her. Sex for women is a large part emotional. What does that tell you? She will deny it until she finds another sucker to live off of or excuse me with and help share the bills. Then your assed out.

6. In a short time YOU will be back to show us the truth after either you find out the truth or you end up in the truth.

7. You really should just not come back for more advice that you already know the answer too. Be a man.

I like what you have to say because you speak the truth and I admire and respect that. The only problem I have with your post and your video is that you don't seem to provide any clear tangible remedial suggestions other than to call the guy a loser and to state the obvious in a very observant, intuitive, forceful, and almost demeaning way.

I enjoy your inspirational posts because they have helped me to be able to put things in perspective. I sure know that I have a LOT to be thankful for, and that things could ALWAYS be worse. Thank you.

I have some questions.

You mentioned the decline of testosterone levels over the decades. Clearly you must be aware of the increase in depression and the divorce rates, as well as the decline of of American society from the standpoint of children being raised in healthy and happy homes.

So lets say Juan was born in as an only child in one of those broken homes. Perhaps he has little arms and ribcage as you described in your video. Perhaps his testosterone levels are in the 4-500 range. I gather you mentioned testosterone levels because you were trying to make a connection between AFC/SYMP mindset, right? Surely if one is suffering from low test levels he is going to be predisposed to having a weak mindset and falling into the habits that you so eloquently described above, true?

My point is that assuming the above is true, how much of Juan's situation can he really be held accountable for to the degree that would justify you calling him a loser WITHOUT giving him anything tangible to walk away with so he can LEARN something and IMPROVE and PREVENT himself from living a miserable life? Correct me if I am wrong, but I don't believe merely telling him point blank to man up and be a man will change much, do you?

This brings me to my question.

Lets say Juan is perceptive enough to derive from your video and post that he is being a weakling AND that other than to recognize his many pathetic mistakes while at the same time improving his life (getting into the gym, not putting up with BS, standing up for himself, etc etc) that he would like to also address his testosterone levels.

If he gets blood work done and verifies he is in the 4-550 range should he take 5mg Turnibol daily for the rest of his life? Should be a small enough dose not to cause any adverse effects that he would need to counteract with any kind of PCT (post cycle therapy). But how much on the scale would it raise his levels?

What if he decided to do a full blown cycle? Should he do a stack? If so, how in depth should he get? Meaning, should he stack weekly for 12-16 weeks 250-500mg Test Enanthate with the same dose of say Deca Durabolin or Equipose? Adding .25-.5mg lasix and the same dose of eithe Nolvadex or Arimidex daily would probably be a good idea in that case too, to prevent any minor bloat and/or Estrogen conversion. After the 12-16 weeks he should have put on between 10-20 pounds of lean muscle and his attitude is sure to be more positive and manly I would hope.

:yes:

As far as PCT (which will make sure his nads are nice and big and healthy), considering his AFC tendencies, should he stay away from Clomid like it is the plague (considering the emotionality its known to cause) and instead take Nolvadex OR an Exestamine (sp?) stack that may include but not be limited to 50mg Proviron and all that other sh1t?

Where the fvck is he going to get all that?

:eek:

And what in good God's name is he going to do to maintain his test levels after the fact? Should he bridge? Perhaps taking something else that will allow for his receptors to heal while maintaining muscle mass until he can do another milder cycle would be a good idea? I've heard NOS or NO2 and one of those newer super absorbable creatines might be a good idea in the interum as well (both from GNC).

Does this mean Juan is going to have to embark on a life long [timeon = timeoff] journey of the Jibba? Maybe if he did a nice stack like the one mentioned above, with PCT, and bridged with NO2 and creatine, then took a milder cycle, and then periodically over the rest of his life took low dose straight Enanthate 8 or 9 days (say 100mg) he would be golden...

I don't know just my .02

Maybe Juan needs to go see a doctor but I'm just not sure if he would be able to get a script for any or all of those things.

:rolleyes:
 
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