"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Something Unpleasant

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Well I started hearing voices couple years ago, almost everyday, usually in the evening. They are offensive.

For example i hear someone talking but i dont hear what they say, my brain is changing it as if they were badmouthing me. Sometimes theres even no need for real voice for this to happen.

I had hard times long ago and also used some drugs. I think i started hearing em because i used both drugs and had inner/mind issues in the same time.


I stopped doing substances but voices are now there everyday. Its really weird.

At first they were very strong that I believed them. I even couldnt sleep whole nights because they were too loud and once had something like mini heart atttack(it was beating crazy and my whole body was shaking) because of them, I thought they are real.

Now i can sleep and i never think they are real (well sometimes) but they really kill my mood/self-esteem/anything inner

What would you do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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