"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something too many people on this site are missing.

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New Years is coming up soon. Came back to this thread to give myself a kick in the pants for the coming year. I still try to live by these words every day of my life, and I can honestly say it has made a big difference - in the quality of my life, satisfaction with myself, and my success with women.

Lots of guys out there need to make a resolution with themselves to put more effort into who they are as a man. As you focus on self improvement the rest of your life is guaranteed to improve exponentially!

Happy Holidays gentlemen
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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giantmecharobotnerd said:
thats what I hate, guys have to be comfortable and content with themselves, confident, have a life, have a passion and have a drive, but girls don't have to as long as they are a hot piece of meat
hot womennl.who orherwise suck at life generally are just as miserable as afcs are it is just a different type of miserable. .they will never be able to demand the ecause aldj they pine for, he might **** her but nothing more because all things considered djs know their market valuve and can get a girl wjo is just as hot who does not suck at life. i am on my tablet excuse the spellin.

women are not men. women can get dates and attention easier but they are not happy unless they have a man they value
 
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