"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ProDJ26

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I'd like to discuss something which I think is the root cause for the majority of us.

ANGER

And not just any anger I mean the kind that we've held deep inside of us since we were young. I think most of us have deep rooted anger mainly towards our parents. I know that people told me before that I have this issue (Anger Problem)

Curious to know if anyone has overcome there inner rage.
Don't get me wrong it's not bad to be mad however I don't want my life to be ruined (Prison/Death) because of Anger...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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YAboi

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I was and still am angry/scared of/at my dad and don't live with him. He however has started giving me masculine counsel and this is helping to increase my confidence as he is a bonafied alpha male in every sense of the word. Anger starts to dissipate when u realize that u can get girls and that u have everything u need inside of u already. U are ok as u are and if u accept ur flaws and be the best u can be while taking calculated risks life starts to take a new meaning.
 

3countriesPlan

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It seems true that many PUAs have an inner anger.. I know some guys just boiling with rage sometimes but the other 90% of the time they mask it really well with the C+F and daygame..I have this inner anger too but I think it doesn't have to be all bad as it is energy you can use to strive for change and not only in the PUA arena. That anger can propel you to success in your career too if you channel it correctly.
 

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Actually even anger has an inner core! Let's think what makes us angry... We are angry of other people! One philosopher once said: "Enemy is the world around us", after many years, another philosopher said: "Enemy is NOT the world around us, but ourself"! You get angry with sth or someone because you let your self get angry! You are the one being upset about something! Obviously I don't mean if someone comes and throw you a punch! I mean about people that we think, see, talk to and just makes us angry! Might even be your own father! So, what is the inner core of anger?

Jealousy!

Yeah jentlemen, in my opinion it is jealousy! Even Froyd analyzing the oedipus complex said that the young kid feeling so much jealousy about his father that is a real man that wants to be like him, he even wanna f*ck his own mother! Think and try to think , at least it has worked for me, that you simply DON'T CARE about the others! Why would you even give him the right to cause you feel Anger, pain, emotional unstable? It's you and yourself! Make others be jealous of you! Feel angry that they are not YOU!
 
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