"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Something that turns me off about a woman

mikey2012

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When you text them or try and escalate or ask them out and...NO RESPONSE.

I rather they just say sorry I'm not interested or I'm busy. I give more respect to a woman who can't say this straight to my face.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nah they rarely ever do that. Either they don't reply at all or they send one word half assed replies hoping you'll get the message. Girls are cowardly like that.
 

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It turns you off? well her mission's accomplished. Remember they are not men, they mostly have serious communication in an indirect form.

That's low IL and it's cool nothing to get a headache over. Can't win them all.
 

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People, not just women, like to avoid confrontation. By not telling the person to go away, you avoid confrontation. It tends to be the path of least resistance.

I bet most guys would do about the same thing if put in their shoes. I mean, if girls were texting you regularly trying to escalate, would you bluntly and politely tell all the ones you didn't like, every single time, "Sorry but I'm not interested" ... or after a while of this would you kind of just not give a sh*t and simply stop responding? Confrontation avoided, check. Ego boosted, check.
 

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mikey2012 said:
When you text them or try and escalate or ask them out and...NO RESPONSE.

I rather they just say sorry I'm not interested or I'm busy. I give more respect to a woman who can't say this straight to my face.

I share your feelings, thoughts. Unfortunately it is like this, I am in the process of accepting it
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DiegoSantori

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They choose the ignoring strategy because women are biologically programmed to seek harmony. Saying "I'm not interested" is too dangerous from their perspective, because it could disturb the harmony.

Women want to be liked. And this is incompatible with being brutally honest.

Men want to be respected. This is not incompatible with being brutally honest.
 

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mikey2012 said:
When you text them or try and escalate or ask them out and...NO RESPONSE.

I rather they just say sorry I'm not interested or I'm busy. I give more respect to a woman who can't say this straight to my face.
Women do this for a very specific reason: they want to have their cake and eat it too.

Women know that if they reject you directly... they'll likely stop getting attention from you. Attention is like oxygen to women. IF a woman is not sexually interested in a man, but thinks he has potential as a friend, utility or orbiter.. she will leave things up in the air and act mysterious. It keeps the man confused and uncertain of where he stands. As a result.. he tries harder and gives her more ego boosting attention.

A man that knows were he stands will walk away. A man who is in the dark will play her game. Women have been using this tactic to manipulate and control beta men for ages.

This is why I preach following the hard and fast rule of: If she won't submit you must quit. If a woman who won't do what YOU want... then her sex drive is not engaged.
 
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