"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something severly weird....

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Today I walked into class. Normal day, nothing different. I was with my mate and I begin to sit down. Suddenly, a girl walks up to me. Now I usually talk to her and at first she was okay with me. But the more I got to know her, the more hostile she became towards me! She would still laugh round me but she became really weird. So I walk into class, she walks up to me and SLAPS ME! ****in slaps me! for no reason! I asked 'What the hell do you think you're doing!?" She responded "I heard you have been saying stuff about me'. My mind came to a screeching halt. Saying stuff about her! What the ****!? I have never talked about her before with my mates and even if I was, what could I have said that was so bad that she gave me a slap!? I dont understand! She and her friends were laughing their asses off so it couldnt have been serious whatever I was
supposed to have said. Then she walks back to her table. I chase her saying "What the hell do you mean!?
Do you think you're the center of our
conversations or something!? I havent said anything about you! Okay, what did I say then!?" she never answered. Not once! She was just there laughing in my face! What the **** does that mean!? My friend had the same reaction I did. He was just as dumbstruck as well, asking "Tell us whats he supposed to have been saying if its so goddamn bad youve gotta slap him! Cause he hasnt said anything about you!" We continued to ask her but she never said. My friends have said she did it cause she fancies me and that I just dont see it yet. and now that I think about, could this be the reason. Remeber when you were little, didnt you used annoy and sometimes hurt girls you liked? maybe this applies to her? maybe shes the female version of an AFC. I dunno, if she hated me so much sher would just ignore and call me a loser or something, right? what do you guys think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maybe she just likes you, a lot, and is very immature....... don't ask why she slapped you.... Just tell her not to do it again and you don't tolerate immature childish behaviour...... you should go and spank her too if you like.....(if you know what you're doing)

They were most likely laughing because you didn't know how to hold yourself....
 
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Can't help, don't know how crumpet girls think...
 
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i wouldn't take that **** for a second. just grab her hard by the arm and tell her that **** doesn't fly...if you feel its necessary, a violent shaking works wonders :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dude if a chick slapped me id probably choke her like darth vader.
 
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My god... have you no self-control? So what she smacked you... is it necessary to over react and think of ways to get back at her?

Most likely she likes you. The best way to handle this perticular situation is to isolate her -- from her friends -- and speak with her 1:1. Then and only then will she be her true self. There you shall find the truth you seek.

So approach her alone. If you like her, ask her out. But NOT initially. "Chit-Chat" for a little while, then ask her -- towards the end of the convo.
 
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