"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Something romantic

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Okay, so my girlfriend and I are both 15, and i want to do something fun/romantic for her. My community has tons of mountains nearby that i like to hike alot of the time. And i was planning on having her do some hiking with me and then just like sit on the top for a while and talk and just watch the view by ouselves and what not(kiss, etc.) And i was thinking if there was a way i could make it really special and have something planned up there. Like go up there before hand and get something ready, or like just have something to have up there and surprise her. So, what could be romantic and fun for ontop of a mountain? FYI the mountain top has a flat sorta area to walk around. Good thing is is that im am like the only one who climbs it(doesnt have a trail, its more fun just climbing strait up) So no interruptions. Um, shes not all dramatic and girly wimpy, but an average girl. shes athletic and very humorous. Shes also a big fan of the whole Twilight Craze, but not over the top crazy about it. But she'll like anything unexpected and very sweet. ID LOVE some help with this guys and girls!!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jeffthechef

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hm..perhaps you could leave something on the path you guys are going to take...make it something really interesting to her...and then she'll be really excited to see where the path leads...leave something else further up and keep doing it al good intervals..too much and it's obvious it was you..too little and she won't be at her climax...

then at the summit..have the thing all you little things were leading up to
this has to be based on what she loves....

i can't even think of an example...but if you can great
hope this helps
 

therock009

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well i just have no clue what sort of thing i could leave upon the track or up at the top. like some sort of gift, i.e. flowers/ roses, chocolates. IDK if would anything like would be good or not
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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saturos

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Screw trail hiking, just invite her to your house, and it should go like this

Girl: *walks in door*
You: "Hey" *walk towards her slowly, take shirt off"
Girl: *excited and wondering*
You: *go up to her ear like you are going to whisper, and shout* - "B1tch, iron this shirt and then haul ass to the kitchen and make me a fvcking sammich!"

She'll love it.
 

intrextrovert

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Food and a blanket for a picnic is what comes to mind here. Finding a flower along the way will be nice too, if there aren't many find one and put it along the path for you to find and give her.

And guys, i'm sure OP knows that this isn't the efficient bang bang sex route. He just wants to do something nice and romantic for his GF, which is really cool.
 

Crazy Asian

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Whats more romantic that putting your d1ck on her ass :D ?
putting it in her mouth right afterwards :D
 

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drummer said:
at 15, almost anything will work.
my problem used to be i was trying to game 15 and 16 year olds like they were 20+ since all the info on this site is used for adult women.
u just gotta calibrate it differently with younger chicks.

but for the OP:

-maybe when she says she's tired, give her a piggy back ride for a few minutes.... that's what i did with one of my plates after a concert and it worked out great..... she was rubbing her face against mine the whole time.

-get a blanket and lay down on top of the mountain and kiss/cuddle

-pick a flower or something on the way and stick it in her hair.

-lastly, just don't worry about it bro.
let go and just let it happen.
don't think, and when the time comes, just ACT.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Romance cant be forced. The whole point of it is for it to be natural.
 
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