"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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eminence

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I started working out a few months ago, and this has really been a problem since I started. It almost seems like one of my legs is longer then the other, but when i'm sitting & stretching they look the same length. When I do squats my right knee/leg goes inward towards my other leg, and in my upper left leg/thigh I have a pain/discomfort when going down for the squat.

I don't think its because of improper form or because i'm doing too much weight(because i'm not) so i'm not sure what it is or what I should do. Go to the chiropractor? Have a sports massage? Go see a doctor?..between all the food, supplements, gym membership, and other expenses I have, I can't afford to throw money away by doing something that I don't need.

I've been taking it easy on my leg and back days though because of this, and i'm not making the proper gains I should be, so I need a little advice here.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Can you touch your toes? Does your lower back round at the bottom of the squat? Like so ).

If not it could just be muscular imbalance. What happens when you half the weight? Does the problem persist? Is your technique fine then>?

Just some thoughts...,

Quagmire
 

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Look in the mirror. Is your iliac crest (hip bone) rotated higher on one side?
 

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Can you touch your toes? Does your lower back round at the bottom of the squat? Like so ).

If not it could just be muscular imbalance. What happens when you half the weight? Does the problem persist? Is your technique fine then?
Yeah, I can touch my toes, it puts a lot of strain on my legs which is normal I think though. My lower back doesn't arch at the bottom, it seems like it stays pretty straight.

When I just squat the bar it seems like my form and posture is right, but as soon as I add weight I get a pain in my left leg, and my right leg seems to buckle in. It's not like i'm doing ridiculous amounts of weight, i'm only starting out with 85-95 lbs, and thats nothing...

Look in the mirror. Is your iliac crest (hip bone) rotated higher on one side?
It seems like its possible that my right hip bone is slightly lower then my left, it's kind of hard to tell though.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Weak right hip flexor, and possibly inflexibility in the upper left leg or weakness. Those are some options, not saying it is though. Check this out:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJ2AB8mDsD4

Remember part 2 as well, also look at the other videos in the series but that one seems most relevant.

You may want to try box squatting for a while, gets you into the feel for the lift:

http://www.ironaddicts.com/forums/showthread.php?t=3395&highlight=box+squats

If you can take a good quality video, then we might have a better idea of how to further help.

May also be a case of not utilizing some of the muscles correctly etc, can cause form problems.

Quagmire
 
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