"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Something no one on here seems to understand about "Alpha" behaviour

Toast123

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As an Israeli of African decent I've noticed a LOT of misconception around here about Alpha behaviour and how its significance on your game. YES, there's a reshuffle and there's no compromising here when it comes to bottlenecks, frustation and the ability to understand why you've invested just THAT MUCH into it. (It's understandable, but, alas, far too costly and overwhelmingly indulgent.) I'm quite lucky.

Alpha behaviour is sometimes overplayed, rendering someone almost cut off and too stanfoffish. Women are human beings women have feelings and most of all MOST women do NOT think of themselves as a super attractive superhuman only worthy of men with the most alpha traits physicaly possible. Understand, you may arrange the team and you may decide that yea, sometimes, you gotta take the black with the white and understands things are different. Sometimes a car, often a room but mostly an attitude and reaction. (Some of them even consider it a street not worthy looking down. After all, we have SIMPLER routes to get there. Often early is not always best.)

Luckily YOU know this but you have made yourself use standoffish behaviour as an excuse to never approach in the hope that women will all come to you. INCORRECT. MOST MEN THESE DAYS ARE BETA FOOLS. We are lucky here because yes, it's simple and often the edges are straight and fixed but luckily there's no coal, there's even no phone or reason to leave. YOU are in control. Know this because I definitly do.

Be fun, be happy, don't be feminine, hold a lot back but give a lot of what you can afford. Which is stuff that gives them a good feeling.

I just wished to fulfill the mould. Show you desire and WISH for a sand of passion upon the strong gust.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chamber36

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Whether we are black or white, chinese or israeli, we are all of african descent.
So I don't get why you keep mentioning your nationality.

If you want to learn Alpha behavior watch The Dog Whisperer.
 

Purefilth

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if your'e giving a **** about how alpha you are, you're a beta.
Honestly, nothing matters less to me. But then I get girls......
 

SgtSplacker

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Thinking everyone here is a dating professional/Don Juan is the same as thinking everyone sitting and eating in a restaurant is a chef.

Most of the posters here come for self help, participating in the community is a great learning tool. Scroll all the way down... see those links? "The DJ Bible" there are the pro tips you seek...
 
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