"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Something no one on here seems to understand about "Alpha" behaviour

Toast123

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As an Israeli of African decent I've noticed a LOT of misconception around here about Alpha behaviour and how its significance on your game. YES, there's a reshuffle and there's no compromising here when it comes to bottlenecks, frustation and the ability to understand why you've invested just THAT MUCH into it. (It's understandable, but, alas, far too costly and overwhelmingly indulgent.) I'm quite lucky.

Alpha behaviour is sometimes overplayed, rendering someone almost cut off and too stanfoffish. Women are human beings women have feelings and most of all MOST women do NOT think of themselves as a super attractive superhuman only worthy of men with the most alpha traits physicaly possible. Understand, you may arrange the team and you may decide that yea, sometimes, you gotta take the black with the white and understands things are different. Sometimes a car, often a room but mostly an attitude and reaction. (Some of them even consider it a street not worthy looking down. After all, we have SIMPLER routes to get there. Often early is not always best.)

Luckily YOU know this but you have made yourself use standoffish behaviour as an excuse to never approach in the hope that women will all come to you. INCORRECT. MOST MEN THESE DAYS ARE BETA FOOLS. We are lucky here because yes, it's simple and often the edges are straight and fixed but luckily there's no coal, there's even no phone or reason to leave. YOU are in control. Know this because I definitly do.

Be fun, be happy, don't be feminine, hold a lot back but give a lot of what you can afford. Which is stuff that gives them a good feeling.

I just wished to fulfill the mould. Show you desire and WISH for a sand of passion upon the strong gust.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chamber36

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Whether we are black or white, chinese or israeli, we are all of african descent.
So I don't get why you keep mentioning your nationality.

If you want to learn Alpha behavior watch The Dog Whisperer.
 

Purefilth

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if your'e giving a **** about how alpha you are, you're a beta.
Honestly, nothing matters less to me. But then I get girls......
 

SgtSplacker

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Thinking everyone here is a dating professional/Don Juan is the same as thinking everyone sitting and eating in a restaurant is a chef.

Most of the posters here come for self help, participating in the community is a great learning tool. Scroll all the way down... see those links? "The DJ Bible" there are the pro tips you seek...
 
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