"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Something I've started to realize - I can't depend on my friends to get laid.

ElStud

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This is something I've just realized - I can't depend on my friends to get laid. It's actually been a realization for quite some time, but yeah. Here's the scenario, I don't have a car, so I'm completely dependant on my friends for going places to get laid. And sometimes we do go to the mall or places where girls hang out, but the thing is, is if my friends have something going on or make an excuse to not go out, I can't go out.

Both of my main boys have cars. One dude is who I consider the dominant guy, as in, he's the kind of the leader of the group. The other dude, has a car, but always makes excuses not to go out and get girls.

Main point is - if my two main buds don't go out where girls are - I don't go where girls are. And even if we go out to where girls are, chances of any of us getting laid off that is little. I think the closest chance we had of getting laid was when one of my boys friends, had a small party, with a bunch of drunk girls.

And I'm waiting, waiting for that same friend to find a party. But I tell you man, it's been so long since these guys have found an actual party with chicks there. That party I mentioned was back in January, so that tells you something. And most nights, even though we COULD be getting girls and my two boys KNOW they have girls they could call up, we usually end up just chilling at dominant friends house(You could say where considered "family" there).

However, there is something I can do about this. See, not long ago I got my temporary license, so I'll be able to drive pretty soon. After that, I won't have to depend on my friends to meet girls. Seriously though, it's summertime! Hot girls are everywhere... and my friends are chilling at the house. Haha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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needstochange

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I can relate to this ALOT! Except for the cars part haha.
 

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You shouldn't be spending your time on determining how you can get you wee-wee moist from a contaminated hor - a biological weapon of the greatest sort!! Rather, spend your time on determining on how to achieve your independence as a man - use your "rightful" head!!!
 

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Frog X said:
Bitter much haha
Truth has no sensation, it just is!!

Truth overrides the material senses - it is of the spiritual realm!!!

Truth ='s the Spiritual realm of existence!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kevin Feng

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Uh yeah, that's absolutely right.

You NEED to have a car and more importantly a place to do this at if you're going to do pick up right.

I mean, even if you do have a friend that consistently drives, you should still have your own ride.

When it comes time for extraction and escalation, how are you supposed to get her back to your place if your friend drove. Logistics Logistics Logistics Logistics. I've had plenty of times where I could have gotten the girl, but logistics always messed it up.

Anyway, I'm just repeating myself, get yourself a damn ride, nows the best time to do it anyway with that 8,000 tax credit on new vehicles and used cars being so damn cheap.


-Kevin
 

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Kevin Feng said:
Uh yeah, that's absolutely right.

You NEED to have a car and more importantly a place to do this at if you're going to do pick up right.

I mean, even if you do have a friend that consistently drives, you should still have your own ride.

When it comes time for extraction and escalation, how are you supposed to get her back to your place if your friend drove. Logistics Logistics Logistics Logistics. I've had plenty of times where I could have gotten the girl, but logistics always messed it up.

Anyway, I'm just repeating myself, get yourself a damn ride, nows the best time to do it anyway with that 8,000 tax credit on new vehicles and used cars being so damn cheap.


-Kevin
The thing is though, if it's a party at someone's house, there's no need to take her to another place, especially if there are no parents. Otherwise, I agree.
 

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Wait, dont you approach a lot and get numbers? Since thats the case just call them up and ask them to hang out. Then get your friends to go with you. Its not rocket science. And youre 19...the parties you go to wont ever have parents, you aint in elementry school, buddy. You should probably worry about kissing a girl before you try to get laid...gotta crawl before you can walk.
 

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I'm in this situation...for another few weeks until college. My friends prefer to bro out or we'll hang with girls from our school they hook up with, not ones from other schools...and i don't get invited to parties
 

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I thought you were going to mention how your friends have no gaming skills, like my friends. they walk up to a girl, im trying to have a conversation with, and start saying stupid crap like " Your tits are so perfect!! CAN I SMACK THEM AROUND MY FACE?!"

and im just thinking "....the hell man". Did i mention he is a **** blocker? I dont hang around him with girls.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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shaunuk

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Come on lad, the biggest womaniser I know can't drive, and I don't have a car at university. Why the fvck would you need one? Get a bus or a taxi or something.

And you can think of better ideas than going to the mall to chat up girls.
 
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