Something I've Noticed

[Ian19]

I have seen several posts from people saying that chicks never pay any attention to them, look at them with a snobbish, bi@#tchy attitude, or treat them like crap, often when no PU attempt has even been made. This is something I also experience frequently.

I've noticed through observing dudes at work, school, and other places that chicks seem to usually direct this kind of attitude toward the better looking guys. I've noticed that guys who are unattractive, to the point that there options with women are drastically limited, are often treated differently, with a smile, politeness, etc. It's almost like sympathy from women or something.

For us who don't get treated like these guys, I wonder if it is because we are at least, at minimum, average looking. (probably well above average though) I'm just curious to know what is going on in a chick's head when they respond. Any thoughts?

 

[backbreaker]

Women rate men as well.

She probably thinks that you are a snob and won't respond to her just like most men here do.

I have actually noticed that as well.

If you are not a true DJ, it can actually be bad to be too good looking, becuase a woman without high self esteem will not send you any signals.

 

[gr8one]

Hey DJ s, Been Gone for a good while, but am back and out there being the best DJ I can be.

If you are not a true DJ, it can actually be bad to be too good looking, becuase a woman without high self esteem will not send you any signals.

This is so true guys. One thing I learned is to appreciate ALL the ladies, regardless of ating, ( hb9- or 3, 4, etc..). A good attitude will always payoff for you!

Above all, be yourselves!

 

[WaterTiger]

There's also the ugly rumor from the female camp that good-looking guys are pigs, players, liars and have the morals of an animal in heat. If you're looking for a good LTR prospect, then get a more average looking guy.

Sort of the same way you guys look at an exceptionally beautiful girl and think."I bet she's a real b!tch."

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

WaterTiger,

So THATS why women treat me like a player, hmm...

Anyway, I've noticed that alot of 'ugly' girls are mean and resentful... Especially towards good looking guys-- Until they get to know them, anyways-- Then they become obsessive freaks and stalk them relentlessly, buying them candy and flowers, etc.

Back on topic...

Most guys are terrified of pretty girls. They either come on like a jack @$$, or not at all due to their fears. Then, like little girls, they blame it all on the woman. If these guys would be more calm and collected about their approach they would have more success in their endeavors. It seems that in most cases, they give the woman no choice but to be a total b!tch towards them.

Take me for example, just because I wear a suit that does not mean I'm a shark!


Some women are b!tchy/flirty, just as a DJ is ****y/funny.

 

[Dirtheart]

I don't think looks has much to do with it. I believe it's in your attitude and confidence, and the way you speak to them. Sometimes this snobby veneer is used as a guard, but if she can see that you're actually a cool person and can communicate with her on a mutual level, it's easy to get past it.

 

[Ian19]

bump

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Looks don't matter, but style does. A woman is less likely to notice your ugly (or pretty) mug than your sense of style.

 

[backbreaker]

good point.

better yet, and this is true, a girl is more likely to notice a nice looking average guy than a bad dressed good looking guy.

If you are a well dressed good looking guy, you have really got it going for you.

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Thats sooo true. I'm a really good looking guy, but I never got much attention until I started wearing a suit and tie.

But, it is all for nothing without the right attitude.

 

[Trickster_guy_2001]

Originally posted by Ian19
I have seen several posts from people saying that chicks never pay any attention to them, look at them with a snobbish, bi@#tchy attitude, or treat them like crap, often when no PU attempt has even been made. This is something I also experience frequently.

I've noticed through observing dudes at work, school, and other places that chicks seem to usually direct this kind of attitude toward the better looking guys. I've noticed that guys who are unattractive, to the point that there options with women are drastically limited, are often treated differently, with a smile, politeness, etc. It's almost like sympathy from women or something.

For us who don't get treated like these guys, I wonder if it is because we are at least, at minimum, average looking. (probably well above average though) I'm just curious to know what is going on in a chick's head when they respond. Any thoughts?

Well, Ian, that's great of you to say that, man! That's one hell of a compliment! Ha ha ha. Cuz all the women act snotty with me. I thought It was just because I was ugly and dorky and a pathetic flop with chicks. Ha ha.

Gawd, I must be like a freakin Adonis then.

I dunno why is other than maybe part attitude of these chicks, part attitude from you, part... well I don't know exactly.

Interesting theory though, if only a bit off.


Any other ideas?

 

[NatureGuy]

There's a woman I see most every day where I work who I find really attractive, but I've noticed she actively avoids eye contact with me in the hallway and never acknowledges my presence. In fact, when I'm in her friend's office, she never comes in. According to the theory being promoted here, you're saying that she may like me?
Why does that seem funny to me? Even if she was shy, couldn't she at least smile my way a little or say Hi?

 

[Grey Fox]

Dude its called being shy. If a chick is shy towards a guy she finds interesting she feels defenseless. Chicks hate feeling defenseless, especially in the age of femminism. So they through up a tough act to shield their fear.

Here is a test you can do, if you pass her just say hi like you would to anyone else. If she suddenly puts her head down, turns red when you make eye contact and squeaks out a hi, or quickly looks away. That could signal interest. Then when you are in her friends office B.Sing tell her shy girl is wierd. Like you'll say hi in passing and she will do whatever. Shy girl's friend may just betray what she is really thinking about you. There is no knowledge that is not power my friend.

-Grey Fox

 

[NatureGuy]

Grey Fox, I'll try it next time I see her.
I actually did try what you mentioned a while ago, but she was so nervous (fleeting half-smile, practically running away from me) I wasn't sure what to do
(and I certainly didn't want to press matters which could harm her).
So I'll try it again, with a new perspective,
but I'm still laughing a bit because if her
avoidance was disapproval of me it could produce interesting results.

 

[dig it]

I got told by a girl once "its like you are too good looking for me"

could be something in the stereotype thing one of you guys posted.

I guess impressions last.

But impressions are broken easily remember.