"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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something is wrong about my digestinve track

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i have a problem and am starting to worry about it. i have noiticed that i have lost my appetite in the morning. when i wake up i cant eat anything i just dont feel like, when ever i try to force my self i start to gag. prior to this loss of appetite i had pain in my diggestive track after eating something. now the pain is gone, but i just dont want to eat anytinhg period., in a dision to tthat my wastes isnt solid. any thought on what is wrong with me?? and what to dO?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you could have any number of things going wrong in there.

you could have spinal misalignments, if a certain nerve is being squished by a spinal subluxation that nerve can't send the impulses to your colon, so it won't be working properly. see a chiropractor to fix that

you could have a yeast imbalance in your DT (digestive tract) go to a health food store and you can buy a candida cleanse or something similar, it will detox your body of that stuff

you could be lacking probiotics (good bacteria) in your DT, that sometimes is related to a yeast imbalance, health food store has probiotics in capsule form in refrigerator section (keep cold always)

your lacking fibers, if you don't have any fiberous material in your body there wont be much feces to pass through. fiber comes in two forms, soluble and insoluble, examples or soluble fiber is oatmeal, wheat germ, psyllium and insoluble is from plant matter like broccolli stems, etc. when you lots of fiber through you gotta drink lots of water or its not as effective.

you could have a blockage in your colon , that to is related to probiotics and sometimes yeast imbalance and sometimes fiber and water intake. if you don't have the proper organisms in your DT to break down all the food you eat plus if your not getting any fiber then it will just sit there rotting and compacting itself coupled with a misaligned spine there is no perstalsis (movement of colon walls) forcing that food along

if you want to check for blockage just gently press along your DT feeling for any hard or painful spots. the large intestine starts roughly at your right side pelvic bone then comes up to the bottom rib area and then straight along to the left side, then down to the left pelvic bone and little crook into the rectum an then bammo yer cornhole. if you find one, gently rub it in the direction it supposed to be going, you may feel nauseas but believe me its worth it to get things going again

or you could have a food allergy. do you eat lots of wheat? or dairy? maybe you are the gluten or protein in wheat, its fairly common (celica disease). i myself have a really bad allergy to wheat gluten so i have to avoid EVERYTHING with wheat in it, believe me that is frikkin hard. although it has helped me to learn about healthy food and lifestyle choices.

you can get a test from doctors for celiac and wheat allergy.
 

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Maybe you just have a stomach bug. Give it a week, if you still have a problem go to the Doctors, that's what they are there for.

Don't forget being emotionally upset can cause this sort of thing. Is there any changes in your life recently that could be affecting you?
 

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i afree with u alpine i thin k its just stress, cuz when walk my dog otside and misten so music i suddently get teh apetite
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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