“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Something interesting for the long time forum members to do...

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If you've been a member of the forum for a year or so search the forum for you very first post and read it for sh1tz and giggles. Does it take you back to a person who was less enlightened? Does it sound like you are today? Does it make you reflect in any way?

I found my first post which I stood up for the values of Doc Love's "System." I was (and still am) a ****y SOB, a bit abrasive but still a bit funny I think. I don't know if my personality has changed much but I do feel the DJ lifestyle much more ingrained in my character, almost as if I was born with it (I wish).

Feel free to post your own insights to yourself stemming from your first few posts. It's almost like a journal of progression, one which you can use to gain even more insight into yourself. :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i have been to this forum since it's hay day before the bible and when pook first graced it. i never been banned. it's just when i got a new girlfriend i always left and when i came back i forgot my passwords. i would love to see some of my old questions i had. chances are they had to do with the drama queens i was dating. man that was such a sucky time.
 
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Hmm... I think the only significant difference between now and then is that I'm much more of a smartass nowadays. This forum will do that to ya. So many pansies, you just have to get sassy with them.

Besides that, I was pretty confident back then, and I still am now. Good times, good times.

Interesting idea Francisco!
 
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mine were forgotten when forums changed long ago. i had one called how to be a chump and one called how to be a player.
 
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penkitten said:
mine were forgotten when forums changed long ago. i had one called how to be a chump and one called how to be a player.
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Penkitten, why not rewrite it?!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shiftkey did we both arrive here around the same time?
 
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I havent been here that long (almost a year) but I looked back anyway to check out my first post. My first post is about not having a car and if it matters to chicks. You can read the thread here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=85190

Not much has changed since then and I didnt get too much help but its all good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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qweretyuiopas said:
I havent been here that long (almost a year) but I looked back anyway to check out my first post. My first post is about not having a car and if it matters to chicks. You can read the thread here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=85190

Not much has changed since then and I didnt get too much help but its all good.
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Have you gotten anything valuable from the forum?
 
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It looks like posts from 2001 are deleted... man I had some good posts in the HS forum! :(

This is the earliest one I could find :
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=20491


hahahahah fvck I can't believe it's me.

edit. Man, I sure that some hacked my account or something. That can't be me.
 
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shiftkey did we both arrive here around the same time?
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I remember first finding this place around April or May and was a lurker until I registered in August. So it looks like it :)
 
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Strangly enough i had a girlfriend when i came to Sosuave so was never a blithering fool......

I dont have a girlfriend now but im certainly not worse off.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Have you gotten anything valuable from the forum?
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Good question. To be honest I'm really not sure. Yes, I have read up on alot more stuff, but I still have the classic newbie problem of being nervous about the approach. Thats my fault though, not the fault of the forum not being good enough. I wont really know if the forum has changed me, until I decide I need to approach and how I handle myself from there on.

I think the whole thing holding me back, is my inner game. I'm not really happy with myself, and I feel if I'm not happy with myself, it makes it alot harder for me to build up the nerve to approach, even if I do my chances will be low. I'm still working on the huge task of my inner game, until then I'm kinda stuck in this same position.

I'm a good looking guy, so its not fear of thinking I'm ugly. Its my low confidence, however, I do always feel confident in 1 aspect of my life, and when I'm there I feel unstopable. I actually met a woman during that time and we have been dating for about a week now. It was easy for me because I had the confidence at that time. Although I have a woman I'm seeing now, I still need loads of work on my inner game. Once my inner game is cool, the outer will come together easy.

P.S. Yes, I still don't have a car or a job and it sucks.

*Sorry to make such a long reply and kinda semi hijack the thread, but I was asked a good question, that actually I think everyone here should answer.* *Maybe a good thead idea to see what others have gotten from here*
 
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