"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

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paymon

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I was recently told that it seems nothing can ever get me down; ie. i never show any sadness or angry, like nothing can change my mood. And I was told it seems fake.

What do you guys think about this?
 

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serial_kisser

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exactly,,,,,nothing can put you down.....that's the attitude you need,,,,,,,,,,even if you have to fake it...................smile and flirt with girls all the time..........\
Cheers.
 

Gonzalo

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Originally posted by serial_kisser
even if you have to fake it...................smile and flirt with girls all the time..........\
Cheers.
Uh..... what?

Paymon, dude the person who told you that is either a guy jealous of your chilled attitude, or a girl who's probably pissed because she pulled off a sh1t test and you didn't react.

If you don't feel like smiling, don't smile; if you don't feel like getting angry, don't get angry... (I know, really high tech sh1t). Go with what you're feeling and you most probably won't come off as fake.
 

blinkwatt

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Try to think of someone who is always happy and joyful...Now what did everyone think of that? Everyone wants to be around them...Reminds me of a lady at my job,she is always happy and EVERYONE LOVES HER.
 

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I like to consider myself a happy person! I try and keep a positive attitude when I'm in the mood. haha

And I love being around people that are always upbeat and positive about life! I think being totally depressed and what not can be a turn-off for the ladies...

A smile gives you a big boost in my opinion! Not only does it help YOU feel better, it also increases your chance of getting with the ladies!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Paymon, dude the person who told you that is either a guy jealous of your chilled attitude, or a girl who's probably pissed because she pulled off a sh1t test and you didn't react.
:up:
 

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Originally posted by paymon
I was recently told that it seems nothing can ever get me down; ie. i never show any sadness or angry, like nothing can change my mood. And I was told it seems fake.
Someones having a go at you because you're happy? what will they think of next. Do you really think being angry and sad instead will improve your life???? whoever told you that seems insecure
 
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