"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Something I struggle with

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So powerless, so pathetic. Seriously, if you don't then why should anyone else?

You're a sheep, doing as everyone else does. It's weak.
Ahhh, but I don’t. That’s why I am not weak. There is a difference between being dumb and being strong. If a man points a gun at my face from 10 feet away, I could tell him to go **** himself and try to fight him. Or I could get shot and die. The latter is more likely to happen as we all know.

Is that guy ‘stronger’ or ‘tougher’ than a man who gives him the $3 he has in his pocket and runs? Maybe. But it doesn’t matter now because he’s dead. I am stronger than you’ll ever know, because I’ve been on both sides. Last time I tried, I almost lost myself in the process. The people who actually DO send up making a difference end up with a knife in their chest or a bullet in the back of their head. Almost happened to my cousin actually.... You can’t possibly understand that living all the way up there where your prisons are nicer than the average household down here.

As the old adage goes:

The more people I know, the more I like my dog.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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