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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Something I notice amongst male vs female appearance: women look better with clothes on

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I tend to notice that when comparing the average man vs the average woman, the woman tends to look better when naked. But when you compare the above average man to the above average woman, the man looks better. Then you compare the really good looking men vs women, men still look better. No I'm not gay, I am savagely against the LGBT bull****. I just notice this in my swim practice. The girls look all nice with the clothes they wear because it it compresses certain parts of their body to make themselves look better. Then you see them in the swim suits or training bras, like woah they don't look as good as they did before. But us guys though, pretty much all of us have broad shoulders, are ripped (or AT LEAST have some kind of muscle tone that puts us above the average non-athlete fit dude), and are a lot more fun to be around. I mean we are guys, so we are gonna be more fit than 99% of the women out there, but still. Women look better clothed than men in my opinion. I think it's also because we tend to work harder and are a lot more competitive.

Anyway, this is just my opinion. What are your guys' thoughts on this? Do you notice this yourself? And if you disagree, please explain why.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Clothes are made to make women look attractive. Women spend a lot more time caring about their appearance and men, at least healthy ones, care for their body, by definition. Since clothing is marketed towards the female gender as a whole, it is a quick fix to make their body look more sensual, while men's clothing usually is not sexy, but more functional (pockets in jeans, suits).
 

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Because men naturally look better. Women have to artificially make themselves look good.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You're 100% right. This also applies to how women need makeup and men don't. Just watch the show "naked and afraid", the men look pretty much normal, but the women look like they've been smoking crack for years after a few days out in the wilderness.
Clothes are made to make women look attractive. Women spend a lot more time caring about their appearance and men, at least healthy ones, care for their body, by definition. Since clothing is marketed towards the female gender as a whole, it is a quick fix to make their body look more sensual, while men's clothing usually is not sexy, but more functional (pockets in jeans, suits).
Because men naturally look better. Women have to artificially make themselves look good.
I'll say this: the average woman who does not work out vs. the average guy who does not work out? Girl looks better most of the time. Guys with no muscle at all look like sh!t whereas girls who dont can still have a nice ass and boobs with a decent figure.

But women are nowhere near as attractive naturally as men, which is weird to say haha. Or is it because we are so used to seeing women look immaculate?
Sometimes the wrapping paper is better than the gift.

But I still like them naked...
How rare are truly beautiful women? (women who don't need makeup at all and look just as good with clothes on as they do without, if not better)
 

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I have to agree with this, to a point. I think outie vaginas \{}/ are butt ugly and I'd rather she kept her panties on till the lights go out. Innies on the other hand \|/ I don't mind staring at them all day.
 

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I have to agree with this, to a point. I think outie vaginas \{}/ are butt ugly and I'd rather she kept her panties on till the lights go out. Innies on the other hand \|/ I don't mind staring at them all day.
Butterfly flaps.
 

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Y'all are crazy. Women look better naked. Why do you think so many men pay to look at women's bodies? Men are built for action. If you can tell me that you genuinely would rather look at a naked man than a naked woman, I don't know what to think.
 

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I wouldn't say men look better, I'd say more real. When you look at a man you know exactly what he'd look like naked.
Women are the sexier gender hands down, there's no competition there. It's just that for the majority of them it's mostly artificial, reason being attention is most important to them. Though it is disappointing when you take her to the bedroom and her body isn't as perky as it looks like clothed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Aesthetics today came about because of Hollywood. You really think the Spartans or Persians looked loke they did in the movies? Lol no, probably not even close. I'm going to error ok the side of genetics. There are quite a few men and some women that look good au natural. Men maybe have more aesthetically nice faces because of genetics and evolution. In every other species, the female is camouflaged and actually looks like **** compared to the males. Men are "peacocks". Most males of other species have vibrant plumage, big shoulders, large combs, manes, etc. to show dominance, protect and ward off enemies.
 

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Are we really talking about how vaginas look ugly and penises are so beautiful?

Whoa guys, I think I'm in the wrong thread ;)
 

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it is disappointing when you take her to the bedroom and her body isn't as perky as it looks like clothed.
This is the point I'm trying to get at. Women look better clothed. They dissapoint when you see them naked. Im saying that men don't, if anything we can actually surprise females when we are shirtless.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Same as it ever was, people with low body fat look good naked and also film better. And yes men look better in genral because men are naturally more muscular which helps sustain lower body fat percentages.
 

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I have to agree with this, to a point. I think outie vaginas \{}/ are butt ugly and I'd rather she kept her panties on till the lights go out. Innies on the other hand \|/ I don't mind staring at them all day.
I like both as long as they're Young pvssy. Mom of 2 or more pvssy get into roast beef in a catcher's mitt territory.
 

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Based on the numerous women I've fvcked, I can usually tell, nowadays, encountering women clothed whether or not I will like her unclothed or whether or not I will like her sexually as well as her personality. There are several clones of clones of women out there (with minor differences). I know Who I Will NOT like based on Who I've got along with in the past, who I had the best time fvcking in the past. There will be women, a type, that I will NEVER get along with, sexually, relationally, in all facets of life she will NEVER like me and I will NEVER like her. Standards, values, and just overall 6th sense, 4th dimension.
 

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I wonder if female thinks the same about themselves.

The fashion business is all about women (maybe to get guys or be above)

The Greeks had an obsession about MALE NAKED beauty. They considered male to be "perfection" or simply "natural"

I find that women are physically full of surprise with clothes. I feel the beach is where you can differ the naked beautiful and those who are dressed beautiful.

Some vagina are not pretty either.

Now if you looking for **** beauty contest go in the village and talk to gays
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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