"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Something i experimented in the net!!!

NeedToImprove

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this may be known as following your gutt and knowing when to quit

ok ive met this 24 portuguese girl in msn first time with my photos, and this 7 kinda let me know that she wasnt interested, almost no questions about me, replied very scarcely although sent me her photos and gave me her email, but there was no feedback of interest

but ive put another photo with different mail some other day with the same girl, it was easy to make her interested, ive managed to seduce her or my "other self" did, obviously she liked the photos of the other guy instead but i could reach inside (she has a bf but kinda melted) and she gave me her # without being asked to and started saying that i knew how to reach a girls heard and i have the gift of communicating with them.

i later messaged her to her cell saying who i really was and that it was stupid to lie but it was only the way to reach her self, i mean get through that armour she was wearing, and i melted it usings my feelings and words and she liked. she said she didnt talked to me because her bf was going to meet her home / she was lost in the conversation, talking to other guys probably / then she went offline because of a short of electricty this last was true because bad weather affected my house too. anyway i asked her later if she didnt talked to me because of looks and she denied "of course it wasnt that, i explained it to you before, i will talk to you tomorrow and we will clear things, dont think it was that, dont be silly" and she shut down her cell some time later.

btw, ive met this 19 brazilian chick that lives 30 minutes away from me also in the msn and with MY photos and she digged me a lot, saying that she wants me to visit her, very mushy and warm, you get those good vibes and you feel so confident you know when u have a good chance to make things work, she melted too, but now chances have plummeted. so i guess i got lucky after all, i even talked to her in the webcam.

i seriously think that she chick that digged me is even hotter than the first one (i love those eyes) that rejected me imho.

check for yourselves

1st chick (got rejected)






2nd chick (liked me)






so, why these 2 opposite behaviours?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's called 'attraction is in the eye of the beholder'. Not too mention 19 year old girls are impressionable.

I think the lesson learned here is that attraction is a two way street.

Why did your chances plummit with the 19 yr. Brazilian girl?
 

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she lets me know she's interested, the message she sent to my cell phone saying that she wants me to visit her and make some time together " loved getting to know you,i hope to be with you very soon... sweet kisses like you " the way she treated me during all the convo, the look in her eyes,she was clearly liking the conversation.
 
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