Something I can do?

[Pozitron]

I've been with this girl for more than 3 months now.
She said yes cause she wanted to see if things will evolve from us being really great friends to more.
She sais she doesn't know what she feels towards me. She knows she cares.
In the meantime I feel for her.. I got upset out of nothing often enough.
She is not really affectionate, doesn't really make gestures.
She sais she doesn't think it is much of a difference except from kisses between us being together now and us being friends like before.. cause we would still go out and we would get along good.
She is aware of not acting like.. being in a relationship.. she said she makes me suffer, that being affectionate doesn't come natural to her..
A couple of times she said we should be like before.. just friends. I didn't want to accept that..

I don't know what this is.. right now between us.
What do you guys say? Ask if you wanna know something..
What can I do in this case?
She is like chill.. I on the other hand hurted quite a lot in the meantime.
However, I like her.. I wanna be with her.
I don't see how I could ever be able to be chill and treat her like before if we stooped this.

 

[LearningSlowly]

You're an idiot.

We gave you advice about this situation about a month ago. You were complaining that you weren't comfortable making out with your girlfriend of two months. We told you to escalate, to feel her boobs, her vag, and to have sex. Obviously you didn't listen, and here you are.

This is the giant red flashing warning sign. Do not ignore it. Have sex with your girlfriend (or at least give each other oral) and see if it solves this situation.

 

[Pozitron]

You don't get it. Don't call me an idiot when you're fvcking retarded. It may not seem as a big deal to you but it's just not how things go around here. It isn't that I'm not brave enough to do it.. it is just out of the question. I wish I could make you see it for what it is but I can't over the internet.

 

[Pozitron]

Someone please DELETE this thread. I'll figure it out on my own.

 

[AlexLefty]

You don't get it. Don't call me an idiot when you're fvcking retarded. It may not seem as a big deal to you but it's just not how things go around here. It isn't that I'm not brave enough to do it.. it is just out of the question. I wish I could make you see it for what it is but I can't over the internet.

What the hell are you talking about?
Why can't you have sex? #1. Where do you live because your english is kind of broken. We need details. "We just can' have sex" doesn't work around here. Until you explain yourself, the answer is: have sex with this b1tch.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

You're not turning her on. You know that. I've told you that. Stop thinking.

 

[BigSmooth]

No wonder she won't have sex with you. You are still a whiny baby. Man up son.

 

[Bwilled]

i understand why u may not be able to have sex 1 against religon 2 small **** 3 lack of expericne 4 over protective parents but dude age shouldnt be a factor she likes you dude if she let you touch her on a first date and u had the oppertunity to had sex...she likes you take it at a medium tempo not to fast not to slow and see where it goes

 

[apocolipto]

Why ask for advice and then shoot it down?

 

[LearningSlowly]

This is an old thread. Pozitron hasn't been back in a while.