Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Something good is going to happen...
- Thread starter Fixmylife
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WhitePimp
Master Don Juan
Not sure if I am following you... That sounds a mental condition to me.Fixmylife said:
But a couple more of options:
I have been making huge changes in my life recently, I just know that I got to wait a little while to let them all "fall in their place". It takes time to change. May be your issue too.
Also, I've read that your feeling may be related to KARMA. If you do something bad, then bad is going to come back to you, in one way or another, almost inevitably, and in theory you can sense it sometimes. Maybe you did something really good for someone, helped someone out so much, and now, it's starting to manifest, things are happening and sooner or later it's going to reach you somehow.
I believe in karma to a certain point... Not 100% tho... Write back to us when you have update!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.