"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Something funny about facebook (not a rant)

Who Dares Win

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Something funny which I noticed and to which I got confirmation from my friends regards the people who deletes you from their friend list.

Apparently its mostly average looking girls and beta boys who do it, not sure if it happens the same to you.

The explanation I gave myself is that somehow by defriending someone they get an ego boost by rationalizing that they are above said user, in fact no hot girl ever unfriended me nor any normal guy.

The average looking girls try anything possible to see themselves in the upper league (in which they dont belong) and the beta guys simply have to discharge the frustration they receive to other guys which they consider "unworthy" (to their standard of course), of alla the guys who deleted me I cannot count a single one of them which managed to get a girl in the last years, you see them taking pictures with funny poses (as to get symphaty) or with kids and old people (as to show a superior moral).

No hot girl or succesful guy ever did anything like that, I found out something similar about who comments my pictures, its totally polarized.
Its either hot girls or ugly ones, the average ones play hard to get even when it comes of giving some online attention.

Try to think about your case and let me know if its the same for you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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speed dawg

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I deleted a crapload of people off my facebook recently. Basically because I was getting too many stupid updates, Crossfit crap, games, etc. If you weren't someone who I actually may come into contact with, family, etc., you got the axe.

I guess I use facebook for a completely different reason.
 

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i think people get way to easily offended when someone deletes them from facebook. it's facebook for fvcks sake!!!!!! why take it personal? i don't get on mine that often (i think my last status i posted was 2 months ago if that tells you anything) but i do delete people who post all those dumbass games on there, always whining and b!tching about how their life sucks day in and day out, and girls that are some nosey b!tches that have nothing better to do then be idiots. i think it's funnier the fit that people throw when you delete them from facebook. i sh!t you not i've had people i deleted come up to me months later and ask "why did you delete me from facebook?". seriously? you remembered that for two whole fvcking months? that's the biggest problem in your life?lol
 
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