i actually dont go to the HS forum that much cause theres really nothing i can get out of it anymore. i wrote this post last year in the beginning of my junior year, and i thought it would be helpful to some people.
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lionfox and some other cool people on this site did this so i'll do it too
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im a junior in highschool, so highschool students might be able to relate to this more.
some things i've learned through experience:
- always speak loud and clearly when you speak. whenever you have something ****y or funny to say but you're not loud enough and she goes "huh?" it just ruins it.
- alot of girls that are cute far away aren't always as cute close up.
- it's better to put your ego on risk when doing or saying stupid things rather than letting your ego sit and becoming the "shy person who says nothing."
- pretending that you don't notice her is more effective when you really don't notice her.
- too much of anything is not good.
- working out and then looking at yourself in the mirror is a good way to keep confidence up. do it everyday! oh yeah...and eat correctly also.
- whining is very unattractive.
- we tend to like more of the race that we had our last affair or crush on. (oh no, the deadly crush word).
- if something is uncomfortable to do, do it everyday non-stop for two weeks and then it won't be anymore.
- if you're gonna be funny, keep these in mind: make sure it's not annoying, make sure it doesn't make you look bad, and make sure its actually funny.
- change your hairstyle, the way you dress, or some sort of physical appearance that is noticable every two weeks.
- looks really seriously dont matter (most of the time...unless you're terribly ugly). it is your actions that lead. just dont look like a slob.
- flirt with as many girls as you can, but just dont be annoying.
- act crazy as hell for three days straight, and then totally quiet the next day. watch how many people ask you "whats wrong."
- girls love guys that can sing.
- become friends with your friends' friends until you're friends with your whole school.
- when something that gets you angry occurs, laugh and make a joke out of it.
- do something on stage in front of a crowd.
- don't tell them your talent. let them find you doing it while you "dont know they're watching."
- "one who takes the simplicity out of things is a fool" ~ bruce lee
- don't wear the same piece of clothing or outfit unless it's been two weeks.
- if you see someone you've talked to before, instead of pretending you dont see him/her, just say whats up! you idiot.
- don't speak negatively about anyone with hate...but if you have to, do it with laughter and a joke that you are sure is funny...and don't linger on the subject too long.
- don't eat anything that gives you gas before or during the school day.
- an ego is easier to be fed by what it was first fed once you have one.
- save any video/computer games for weeknights that you dont go out on.
- try not to speak to a girl through instant messaging if you can help it.
- try not to speak to a person you dont know in person through instant messaging unless its for a certain important purpose (aka, don't become good friends with people online that you dont know in person).
- speak to, and make jokes with your teachers.
- speak to the whole class at the same time.
- don't spend so much money on school lunch.
- instead of putting your earphones on, talk to someone during: study halls, free periods, bus rides, etc.
- try to talk to every girl that is above average on your looks scale.
- if you have a girlfriend in your school, unless she's in any of your class, don't make it a habit to go and see her everyday.
- chill with different group of friends every now and then.
- be about something in school!! (ex: the best dancer, the best singer, the best rapper, yadda yadda yadda)
yes well im getting sleepy and it's almost my bed time (trying to get enough sleep every night now -.-) so i must conclude this. if anyone has any questions about any item on the list above, i will gladly explain.
thx for your time!!
~1~
oOh Nasty
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lionfox and some other cool people on this site did this so i'll do it too
!!im a junior in highschool, so highschool students might be able to relate to this more.
some things i've learned through experience:
- always speak loud and clearly when you speak. whenever you have something ****y or funny to say but you're not loud enough and she goes "huh?" it just ruins it.
- alot of girls that are cute far away aren't always as cute close up.
- it's better to put your ego on risk when doing or saying stupid things rather than letting your ego sit and becoming the "shy person who says nothing."
- pretending that you don't notice her is more effective when you really don't notice her.
- too much of anything is not good.
- working out and then looking at yourself in the mirror is a good way to keep confidence up. do it everyday! oh yeah...and eat correctly also.
- whining is very unattractive.
- we tend to like more of the race that we had our last affair or crush on. (oh no, the deadly crush word).
- if something is uncomfortable to do, do it everyday non-stop for two weeks and then it won't be anymore.
- if you're gonna be funny, keep these in mind: make sure it's not annoying, make sure it doesn't make you look bad, and make sure its actually funny.
- change your hairstyle, the way you dress, or some sort of physical appearance that is noticable every two weeks.
- looks really seriously dont matter (most of the time...unless you're terribly ugly). it is your actions that lead. just dont look like a slob.
- flirt with as many girls as you can, but just dont be annoying.
- act crazy as hell for three days straight, and then totally quiet the next day. watch how many people ask you "whats wrong."
- girls love guys that can sing.
- become friends with your friends' friends until you're friends with your whole school.
- when something that gets you angry occurs, laugh and make a joke out of it.
- do something on stage in front of a crowd.
- don't tell them your talent. let them find you doing it while you "dont know they're watching."
- "one who takes the simplicity out of things is a fool" ~ bruce lee
- don't wear the same piece of clothing or outfit unless it's been two weeks.
- if you see someone you've talked to before, instead of pretending you dont see him/her, just say whats up! you idiot.
- don't speak negatively about anyone with hate...but if you have to, do it with laughter and a joke that you are sure is funny...and don't linger on the subject too long.
- don't eat anything that gives you gas before or during the school day.
- an ego is easier to be fed by what it was first fed once you have one.
- save any video/computer games for weeknights that you dont go out on.
- try not to speak to a girl through instant messaging if you can help it.
- try not to speak to a person you dont know in person through instant messaging unless its for a certain important purpose (aka, don't become good friends with people online that you dont know in person).
- speak to, and make jokes with your teachers.
- speak to the whole class at the same time.
- don't spend so much money on school lunch.
- instead of putting your earphones on, talk to someone during: study halls, free periods, bus rides, etc.
- try to talk to every girl that is above average on your looks scale.
- if you have a girlfriend in your school, unless she's in any of your class, don't make it a habit to go and see her everyday.
- chill with different group of friends every now and then.
- be about something in school!! (ex: the best dancer, the best singer, the best rapper, yadda yadda yadda)
yes well im getting sleepy and it's almost my bed time (trying to get enough sleep every night now -.-) so i must conclude this. if anyone has any questions about any item on the list above, i will gladly explain.
thx for your time!!
~1~
oOh Nasty
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