"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So i have a crush on this lady, she seems receptive...but of course, i can always get away with kino lol jk.

Seriously, she likes it sideways lol i cant stop

So my different idea is this. I just engaged her for like a weeks time. Shes going on a trip/vacation...i probed and its like a girls thing. No boys right, or so we know.

So im tjinking about asking for her number before she goes, so as to she can text me the beautiful scenery aka share her life with me in a positive way. Obviously i will be silent and only respond if shes engaging me while shes away having fun. Also she can talk about me when her friends probe her about hot guys. Hello, she has one shes texting. Haha.

Then when she returns, game on and i procceed to swoon and get to her heart lol.

Just an idea, as opposed to letting her go and getting the number after. Cuz i like to spice up my life with new ways to attract them.

P.s.
I think its an easy bucket cuz i joked about going with her to keep an eye on her and she joked back saying, just pay for the flight then.

I know its early but i feel confident that her body is up to my specification because i have felt the problem areas thay females have and she passed. More over, i got to test that bold move and im sure she tingled. Ha!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bad idea in my books. Maybe get her number, but, don't contact her when she is away. Maybe she will initiate while she is away. If you get her number and then start contacting her while she is on holiday and try to chat back and forth she will probably think "arg, why did I give this guy my number, he keeps bugging me while I am on holiday".
 
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Get her number and ask her out. Don't be stupid.
 
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Exactly....i wouldnt chit chat while shes away. I said that she can send me pics and she can talk about this hawt dyck to her friends. Then when she comes back. Its on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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