Something about female nature has been lost forever

[Pumax]

For as long as we know how to "handle women," how to "keep a relationship with a woman," has been a complicated thing for us men. I mean... it seems as if there was a specific moment in human history when the "original recipe" was lost..
A moment when all women's behaviors were obscured and misdirected.

I'm sure that in other times, it was easier for men to behave in certain ways, precisely because they were aware of women's nature, and therefore had much more "impact," "power," and "knowledge" regarding how to deal with women and their nature.

Just think about how we evolved to pass on to our generations, creating men who wonder how to attract and keep women in relationships.
Now, all this may be normal, given the interest and curiosity to do better in life, but it's not normal for a man to have to ask himself this, and for someone else not to have taught him. If children don't know certain things, it's their fathers' fault. If their fathers didn't know them, then it's their grandparents' ignorance that's to blame, and so on.

But the question is: why have we come to this? Why do today's generations have all these difficulties?
It can't just be the result of media conditioning; there must also be something that has been lost forever, something that people once knew each other. Something that our father could not teach us, because that something was lost forever.

 

[BaronOfHair]

The basics https://www.facebook.com/share/v/18iegazB9A/ remain eternal

 

[plumber]

The story of Samson and Delilah. That was long ago..... And David and Bathsheba, also long ago..... In the start, Eve and Adam with a fruit. There is nothing new under the sun. We have studied the animal called humans deeply and technically know all the answers and reasons. Most choose to ignore the truths.

 

[ludovic991]

The dynamic shifted because social roles changed so much in just a few generations. Most of what used to be "common knowledge" passed down by fathers doesn't apply to the modern world anymore. It’s more about a lack of clear guidance than something being lost forever.

 

[Pumax]

The basics https://www.facebook.com/share/v/18iegazB9A/ remain eternal

That is actually a good looking one. Not relationship material tho.

The story of Samson and Delilah. That was long ago..... And David and Bathsheba, also long ago..... In the start, Eve and Adam with a fruit. There is nothing new under the sun. We have studied the animal called humans deeply and technically know all the answers and reasons. Most choose to ignore the truths.

When you enter into that intimate relationship, you share the most important things.
It could be things like our secrets, like in Samson and Deliah.
This doesn't mean we shouldn't do it, because we're afraid someone will betray us.
If they do, they're out. If they do, it's a lack of respect from which there's no going back.

 

[plumber]

When you enter into that intimate relationship, you share the most important things.
It could be things like our secrets, like in Samson and Deliah.
This doesn't mean we shouldn't do it, because we're afraid someone will betray us.
If they do, they're out. If they do, it's a lack of respect from which there's no going back.

agree that it is lack of respect to breach trust.

in romantic relationship there is a threshold of information that is ok to share and a deeper one that is only for self. when the deepest secrets and thoughts are shared it puts us into a submissive position. we have perhaps shared the only way to break us. while i understand the idea of trust builds trust. it also changes perception. before the secret is told the man is invincible. after the secret he is only one step away from being a looser. for example; cut his hair.

i understand the desire to have love so powerful that it only wants to care for you and do all things good for you. but the glitch is that feeling will rust away when the vision of invincible is shattered. much better to keep the deep things within and share only the things that help fuel good results.

my viewpoint is that we should not do it.

 

[Gamisch]

Men always had difficulties getting women. Many vikings for example traveled across the ocean for riched and women. Another thing: in religions its always about control over the women. Historically only 40%of men reproduce.

Hence why the biggest flex for most men is simply having women/ a woman. Some men have more respect for a bumb azz loser who lives off his girlfriend's wallet than a hardworking man who has trouble getting women. The latter will be viewed as less valuable , perhaps because arguably we are unconsciously aware about the 40% statistic and thus on a primal level we have more respect for a man who can create a so-called legacy.

 

[Mike32ct]

Hence why the biggest flex for most men is simply having women/ a woman.

Yeah I chuckle when I read “…out with my guy friends or wingman for social proof…”

Nobody cares about that. People want to see if you have a chick with you or not.

 

[intricate design]

Unfortunately I do my best being sorta a loser.

Some of you guys make 500k or millions per year. I mean, I’d like to make that but never figured it out. I probably worked and studied more than you but you got these opportunities for making immense money

fortunately women still come to me

Most women in my neck of the woods make more than men. Lots of them are upwardly mobile white women who vote for communists and are insulated from their awful political choices. but they don’t want to be with a dude who is you know, a Democrat (gay) Marxist weirdo

American society has crossed this lexicon of rewarding the worst while demoting the strongest.

 

[plumber]

Unfortunately I do my best being sorta a loser.

Some of you guys make 500k or millions per year. I mean, I’d like to make that but never figured it out. I probably worked and studied more than you but you got these opportunities for making immense money

fortunately women still come to me

Most women in my neck of the woods make more than men. Lots of them are upwardly mobile white women who vote for communists and are insulated from their awful political choices. but they don’t want to be with a dude who is you know, a Democrat (gay) Marxist weirdo

American society has crossed this lexicon of rewarding the worst while demoting the strongest.

disagree. an average income can make a man wealthy if he learns restrain. just take 10 or 20 or 30 percent of your money every month and learn to invest it. if a man does this starting at age 18, he will always end up a man of wealth by middle age. the issue is not high income the issue is high spending.

 

[intricate design]

Well I have money from family but truthfully, for whatever reasons, I failed at making millions of dollars. the thing is I tried like crazy and failed with various business ventures

maybe in the next 10 years something will hit and I build something better but for now

All I see is young women were deliberately given every opportunity to succeed while men (especially straight white American men) were systematically forced into a state of failure

now, if you go to China - a place that business moguls recognize feminism as a poison that ruins societies - you will find that they are educating the males to have masters degrees, so they will have a earning potential and support a family.

but when you come to Sanctuary Cities in the U.S. it’s pretty clear to anyone with common sense. They’ve initiated what I call Backwards World which is led by the Backwards People

so I may have some growth stocks and other investments but one has to be realistic. What’s happening is a total nightmare.

women are not to be trusted to vote for a reason. And men are supposed to be the breadwinners for a reason.