"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Something a fellow DJ reminded me of...

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Okay so we all know its fun to play the ol game of "text as many girls as possible and watch your roomate's expression as they pour in"! well one thing to consider is never get ONITIS always a good idea and second dont text too much to one single girl... It's a common game for girls, that really doesn't get discussed too much, but they will stop texting you if you always text back. I have had some failure lately and I had some fellow DJS remind me of some things... text a girl maybe 2-3 times a week, if your ****ing her then maybe 4 times. Keep your convos short make a high point and leave her wanting another, but dont leavve her shyt. she'll be wanting that text so bad she can't stand it haha. it's best to only call/text to meet up if your gonna do it more than 2-4 times a week! forgot.....remembered......WORKED........GOT LAID :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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