You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yup. Glad you left RAIN/Ghostbar off that list. That place is horrible.Originally posted by PRMoon
Pure in Caesars Palace
Jet in the Mirage
Body English in the Hard Rock
Toa in the Venitian
Tangerine in Treasure Island
Light in the Bellagio
Hooters Casino just opened Last Week
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah that can happen from time to time. I never go to clubs where I have to pay these days. If I don't get in free I simply dont go, but sometimes I'll split a table with some friends and we'll go out big. But since I live here I have alot more time to deliborate these things.Originally posted by So Many Ways
One of my friends forgot his wallet and ID at home and it took buying a $260 bottle of Mo in order to get in. It was cool though, VIP and all that, never done that before. They even brought us girls to kick it with us but they wanted something else besides some drink, something we didn't have. Oh well.
I can't believe they haven't remodeled 54 yet! I guess since it's in the single largest hotel in the world they don't need to invest any money in to making it look nicer but still i've been here almost 8 years and it hasn't even changed once. I guess that's what good in house marketing will do for you. I think you made the right choice going with Body English though, that's got to be number 2 or 3 if I had a top five clubs that I'd go to.Originally posted by So Many Ways
I've hit Studio 54 a couple of times before but the last time I went a couple of years ago, there was nothing but 40 somethings there. The first time I went, 7 years ago, it was off the chain.