“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Someone tell me I'm slow please...

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I'm falling for a girl I met off the internet... :nono:
Someone shoot me please...

2nd date is today, I'm looking forward to it. My life is sad...

I just hope once I have sex with her... she'll be like any other girl!
(Seed implanted, move to next host!)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just don't act like a chump toward her and you'll be fine...well no, not really but I figured you could use some kind words :D
 

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Scorched said:
I'm falling for a girl I met off the internet... :nono:
Someone shoot me please...
Here is a concept for you...

People you meet on a day to day basis serf the net too! People on the internet are not aliens or different in any way.

You are saying you have already met her once, so she must have been normal for there to be date 2!

So what you met her on the net??? Nothing wrong with it at all if she has turned out to be normal.
 

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Scorched said:
I'm falling for a girl I met off the internet... :nono:
Someone shoot me please...

2nd date is today, I'm looking forward to it. My life is sad...

I just hope once I have sex with her... she'll be like any other girl!
(Seed implanted, move to next host!)
Falling in love is still falling. See if you can stand back up and still be in love.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fash said:
Here is a concept for you...

People you meet on a day to day basis serf the net too! People on the internet are not aliens or different in any way.

You are saying you have already met her once, so she must have been normal for there to be date 2!

So what you met her on the net??? Nothing wrong with it at all if she has turned out to be normal.
Bravo! :up:

I'll add one ofther thing, if you're afraid about falling for her too soon just start sarging other women too; simple.
 

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Its the fact you used "2nd date" and "falling for" in the same post that i would be worried about...


Sarge On!
 

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Tomatoes said:
Its the fact you used "2nd date" and "falling for" in the same post that i would be worried about...


Sarge On!
Indeed!
But saying that women are guilty of this too.
He is young, enjoy and learn this is what it is about anyway.

OP
Stop looking for validation on this forum for your actions, if you mess up search for an answer but dont assume other ppl have a better method when it come to human and female attraction, you have to learn your own path.
 

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I'm falling for a girl I met off the internet...

The only thing that worries me is "falling" for a girl you've only been on one date with. But sometimes the best way to learn how to ride a bicycle is to let the boy fall down a few times first.

DO NOT think that this is the girl you're going to marry. It probably won't happen. Nevertheless, have fun!
 

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I often wonder if they had these conversations about telephones when they were first introduced.

"I met this girl, ive been talking to her on the telephone"

"Oh my god, not the telephone, its so wierd meeting people off the telephone"

Its just another medium of communication, use it for what its worth, just dont stay on it all the time, there is things like sunlight and parks out there too :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yeah...

yeah... I need to get to know her more before I'm into her. That's one of the reasons I'm mad at my self... We just have a lot more in common than most of the girls I've dated over the past 2 years that I've been single. I'm 21 she's 23, this is a whole new game for me... Used to dating 18 year olds... hehe

well Thanks for not making me feel like a looser/e-pimp hehe. I do need to get over it...
 
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"(Seed implanted, move to next host!)"

I think this is the funniest thing I've read all day.

I'm confused though, how can you be falling for a girl, but plan to dump her after sex? usually guys who are hopelessly in love don't plan on the "hump 'em and dump 'em" game plan
 
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