Someone Help me, i dont know where else to go

[Dragunfli]

Okay, my background: i'm in the 10th grade at a high school in south carolina. The Girl i like goes to the same school and is in the same grade. I Like this girl alot, i mean ALOT. like for a year and a half now ALOT. but i think i already missed my chance to get a date with the girl that i like. I can remember back when we would swap messages back and forth on AIM and myspace nearly everyday, and she would call me from time to time, but nowadays i only talk to her in school. i'll occasionally send her a message on myspace, i'll talk to her on AIM and at school but she's either with her friends at school or talking to another guy on AIM. I am so afraid that this guy is going to get to her before i do, and i dont know which move to make. I am thinking about asking her to go see a movie with me soon but i'm not sure if thats a good move at the moment. We are really good friends in school and all, and she flirts with me every now and then by trying to get into my backpack while i'm walking. I kinda said something on AIM earlier that i shouldn't have as well, i asked her if she liked that other guy (but i asked her in a friendly way, not in a rude way or anything), and her next response was "...." "why do you want to know?". Those last messages threw me out of whack and now i dont know what to do. She goes to church with this other guy, he's got a friggin car, he's 6'5''. I dont go to the same church as her, i dont have a car, and i'm only 6'1'' (she likes tall dudes). Listen guys, i need your help on this one. I dont know what to do, please someone....anyone help me. Please.

 

[the pokemaster]

oh my god stop whining please.
seems like you too have become FRIENDS.

1st point. Don't be so needy. Your having a heart attack that she's probably got a bit bored of you from all the attention you've been giving her lately ie, the aim, myspace, messages EVERYDAY.

In my opinion (which is what your asking for)
cut it out. All of it.

This whole text communication thing doesn't do jack, especially when you see this girl everyday in school. What's the point, wheres the space for her to think about you?

YOUR A DON JUAN NOW YOU HAVE AN ADVANTAGE

So what if this girl is seeing this other guy?? This other guy probably doesn't have half the resources and knowledge now that you have being you are part of this forum. And im very sure with all the attention shes been gettin of this 6"5 guy, soon also is gonna become boring too. She's 15 man... come on of course shes gonna be interested in a guy with a car...SHE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS YET. I'm basically your age trust me I'VE EXPERIENCED IT. And besides sooner or later everyone will be driving. It's not a big deal man.

READ THE FORUMS MAN.
DOWNLOAD SOME DAVID D'ANGELO EBOOKS etc and LIVE THEM
LISTEN TO THE ADVICE WE GIVE YOU

I wouldnt advise you apply the techniques you learn from this site on this chick. Simply because she KNOWS you and she'll notice your game and see you as fake.
From now on, when you do see this chick, pay the amount of attention she pays you, probably less. Don't worry man. You know this girl, you have contact with her. She goes to your school. She aint going know where. Don't become part of the drama.

Give her some space, if anything its probably a good thing she forgets about you for a while. Come back with some GAME and deal with her. You've liked this girl for a year and half? Has anything ever happened between you too? Has she ever been your girlfriend? Ever kissed? If you haven't then somethings wrong.

Really, ohnestly, I know you like this chick. You must obviously to even post this topic. But do try and practice on other chicks, im dead serious...

Think of it this way... you're in a video game... almost like Zelda lol. You see the baddie at the beginning of the game and they're obviously too strong to even think about dealing with. But as you go through the game practicing your swordplay and technique you get better and better until you good enough to conquer the baddie.
Lol not saying you chicks the baddie but you know what i mean.

DONT WORRY. YOURE NOT GONNA CHANGE YOU IN A CORNY WAY.
when you start talking to this girl again she's gonna be like wow... i never noticed you could actually be a sexual companion...

I'm really sorry if i seemed out of order or harsh in this message but this is reality, this is how things go. I wrote this all out for your interest so you can either take or leave the info that i and other members of the forum say.

 

[penkitten]

she asked why do you wanna know expecting you to say well he wanted me to ask you.