Someone Got Me Drunk and Took Advantage of Me

Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Greasy Pig

Master Don Juan

Jan 1, 2015

Same thing happened to me a long time ago. I knew this land whale and she basically forced herself into my hotel room.
We chatted for a bit and then I lay down and told her to watch TV.
About a minute after I closed my eyes, I feel a hand touching my nether regions and next thing she's whipped my Johnson out and started blowing me with the gusto of a calf on its mother's udder.
I reluctantly told her to stop but as they say: The standing pryck has no conscience.
But the worst thing was I booted her out early and one of my workmates was heading to breakfast. He still reminds me of it to this day.
She was disgusting. But hey, I was young and drunk.

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.