"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Someone explain this to me

Nobody

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Hi, I'm Nobody. Yesterday, I was a Nobody. Then today, about Period I we had a test on History and my teacher made the last test question: "When someone asks 'How are you?' You don't say 'Good' you say 'Well'" to make fun of me. Everyone laughed at me. Then I made a bet with my friend that I could make this basket with a paperball in this hope in that class. I did. And I jumped up. After that, things just spiraled upward.

First one of the popular girls at school in my next period after I that was also in my group, went to her friends locker and scratched my head from behind to say hi. Followed by me being quite popular in that class despite the girl saying little during that period (though she did talk to me). Guys from other groups were talking to me a whole lot.

Then the period after that, I made everyone that wanted to walk by me when asked "Who's your favorite Danny?" They said "me." to get by. So then I had a good period then too. I also made a little humurous joke with my teacher in front of class.

Then when I walked back to my locker, some other girl I use to like came and talked to me. Then I tried going to a club and guys said hi to me. WTF is up with people today? What did I do different today? Don't say I was confident, because I am everyday. A little funny today? Yep. But nothing much changed? Pure luck, I'm guessing. See if you can spot it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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shydude

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Maybe they all were in the good mood. When you are popular you need to get used to being huged, being fukked, and being tortured everyday.

I am even used to having sex with chiks I dont like.
 

oakraiderz2

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Troll...??
 
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