someone explain this mystery

[newbeginning]

approximately a year ago, i met this korean/white girl, fine as can be (im still drooling). she liked me, i know for sure. and i liked her alot. Asked her to hang out. we went to see a movie. after that she just ignores me. Im sitting here scratching my head. Some friends even rubbed it in my face and told me that she really liked me too but something changed. What the hell did i do wrong?!!! Perhaps i was too afc and gave her the advantage?? Now everytime i see her with her recent bf i get so pissed. But of course i always keep my cool and say "hi." Isn't there any ****ing god!!! I've been reading alot on this site, but never had the guts to implement it. Hopefully i get off my ass and take some action soon. Feel free to comment.

 

[Chewy Bagel]

Dood,

You took her out, she decided that you two weren't a match and it was over. That's was dating is - spending time with someone to see if your personalities are complatible.

CB

 

[DEKKA]

read the DJ bible. do bootcamp. you're a huge AFC.

 

[echo1212]

Chewy was right on in his statement. She just decided there wasnt enough attraction. Dont take it personally.

 

[Golden Arms]

I still don't see where the "mystery" is ?

sounds like you pretty much aswered your own question, nothing mysterious at all

 

[newbeginning]

i suppose all you say are true, but why ignore me?? thats where the mystery is. Its not like she found out im a serial rapist and decide to avoid me.

 

[echo1212]

She ignored you because some people dont have the guts or maturity to break up with someone or say theyre not interested directly. So she just decided to ignore you until you got the hint. It sucks, but really there is no mystery here...even though I know you want to find one.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

if she told u why u didnt get a second chance u will probably start crying

if u didnt do any major screw up mabe it was just a mercy date or she was dating other guys that she preferred over u or she just dont like you as a mate or maybe u were to gooogooo gaaagaaa over her and thought u were desperate!

peace

 

[Wyldfire]

Movies are bad for first dates. You sit in awkward silence the whole time. First dates should always be as engaging and involve as much conversation as possible. And on top of that, if she didn't particularly care for the movie, the feelings she has when she leaves the theatre about the movie are going to spill over into how she feels towards you afterwards.