"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Someone actually tried hitting on me today!!!

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Lan

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She began convo with you which means she is interested. Seeing you with the other hottie is only going to HELP you because she see's that you are socially proofed with other attractive women. You have a chance!! Just dont **** it up now. Be calm and cool. When you talk to her, pick out one word from what she says and use it to start talking about another topic. You do it with your friends, you can do it with her. Just relax and most importantly, dont give a **** about the outcome of the situation. This will attract her and get her to chase you. Just relax and be cool man.

--Lan
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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