“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Someday its Game Over

Randallpink83

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Hello Don Juaners! And especially hello to some of my good pals on here. Its been awhile since I really been around. But no worries, I'm still knee deep in the "game". Just been too busy to spend much time on this site.

This past summer I have actually been laying off the nightlife a bit and been spending more time with just one or two girls here and there... Just playing around with some of the longer drawn out affairs! The sex can get REALLY good with those - But its time for me to get back out there again. Its time to hit it HARD! - - - I used to go out 4 times a week - I need that again.

But lately a lot of changes have been going off in me. At first by design. Now more so by natural momentum.
A lot of my beliefs about pick-up and methods are completely different - In fact I spent the other day going through a lot of my old posts on here, and most of it is still relevant but there is more posts than I thought there would be where I would now actually disagree with some of my tips. Not so much that they are wrong, just I know more effective means now - I know sh!t now! But still growing like always.

But I want to scramble out some of my thoughts on something UPLIFTING for you guys to ponder on with me. I want to talk about DEATH. =P

Thats right... Someday its Game Over. In fact here is something everyone knows but probably rarely thinks about. In a 100 years from right now, I can almost guarantee that YOU and EVERYONE you know will be dead. No longer will they be here. No longer will YOU be here.

In 100 years from now - YOU WILL BE DEAD.

I have a goal that I'm going to live to be 122 years old. But even then, 100 years from now I will be dead too. :p

Now I really don't want to put you down with this. And I as well as anyone knows how scary the thought of death can be. I used to actually fear it. In fact, in the past about 3 or 4 years ago I almost died and it scared the crap out of me! Like REALLY SCARED ME. I suffered from hardcore panic attacks and anxiety for a long time after that. I realized suddenly how vulnerable I was. I was basically having a mid-life crisis over my mortality. Before that point I didn't even really know what the word FEAR meant.... But I know now.


But death is actually a POSITIVE aspect of our LIFE. It truly is something to be THANKFUL for.

Life wouldn't be so sweet if we didn't have death. Death is the ultimate motivator - the ultimate teacher.
Guys if there is one reason to go out and get what you want. To go unleash yourself in this world. To get good at pick-up - its the fact that you will someday not be here anymore....

Thats your ULTIMATE CONFIDENCE right there!!

You are ALIVE right now!!! Ain't it great... Like dude, you are alive with me right now reading something I wrote - We are Alive! Celebrationnnn!!!
You need to WAKE UP and realize that - wake up, you're alive!
And someday its going to be Game Over. So lets do something great while we are alive.
The whole "Live like there is no tomorrow" quote. Well I say truly implement that into your life.


When you accept your mortality, life becomes more Full. Isn't that weird... When you ACCEPT death you become more ALIVE.
I'm talking about death but THIS IS A THREAD ABOUT LIFE.

Someday you won't have life. so its extremely imperative that you enjoy it while you have it. The greatest catastrophe in life isn't dying - its never having lived at all... paraphrasing some ancient dude there.

You need to be really Thankful for the things you have.... Just take a deep breath right now and hold it in. Then slowly let it ALL out as you completely relax your body and sink into your computer chair and say "awww im alive - feels good!". Thats right! =)
For now on I don't want you to be asleep like the mass of the world is. We don't have fear - We don't have negative vibes holding us back - We are ALIVE! We don't have time for all that crap in our life.

You are alive - thats everything you need in this life to be happy. To be confident. To be successful.

Your water should taste better. The earth should look more beautiful. You should walk with more energy. Talk with more passion. Enjoy people more. Experience women at all opportunities. And especially above all else, you should like yourself! You are alive.
You don't need to reach your distant goals to be happy. You don't need more money, or clothes, or whatever - all you need to do is WAKE UP right now and BE ALIVE! You already have everything you need. Be thankful you have it while you have it. Thats Confidence!


Following this belief system can fuel your Self-Esteem like a roaring fire! This belief system alone can be insanely attractive to women. They want someone alive.
Most of them are asleep too. Go wake em' up! :D

someday its going to be Game Over - So why not leave a 'High Score' behind.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sandow

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Good post. But the religious ones on here are going to disagree since they believe heaven (after life) is the ultimate.
 
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