“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Somebody tell me about Junior Prom?

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Ok so my school's prom is looking pretty weak, low attendance and very few cute girls...

So I'm opting to go to this other school, A.I. for prom, this school is well-known for having lots and lots of hot girls. Right now I am pretty much guaranteed to get in, but before I drop the money on this night I want to make sure it's a good idea...

Now here are a few things to keep in mind:

I barely know anybody from this school, a few kids from my Jr. High but that's maybe 5 people

It's $85 for the ticket, not including money I'd have to spend to rent a tux, etc.

The school has a lot of hot girls, but I have no social proofing, no preselection, and no momentum as Norwegian says

I've never been to prom

So from a Don Juan standpoint, is this something worth going to? I want to make sure this is something I can have fun at and pick girls up before I drop half my money on this one night. Please give me your opinions.

Thanks in advance
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BPH said:
So from a Don Juan standpoint, is this something worth going to? I want to make sure this is something I can have fun at and pick girls up before I drop half my money on this one night. Please give me your opinions.

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In my opinion, school dances are just not that fun (it's the after parties that are)
I sure as hell wouldn't pay 85 bucks to go to someone elses prom.
but if you're gonna go, make the best of it and don't go in there thinking about all the things you don't have. It might turn out fun.
 
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Sneak in some alcohol and ask some cool kids and hot chicks to share it with you outside, since proms don't supply alcohol ;) Unless they do in Norway?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yea, I agree with Johnny, I don't know how they do proms where you are, but the majority of the girls at the proms around here, are already going to have a date. There may be that occasional group of girls that came as a group, but I'm not sure if I'd want to bet 85$ on that.
 
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See if you can find out where the after parties are. That's where you have a much better chance of doing anything/having more fun. Instead of spending the $85 on a ticket, spend some on alcohol and bring it to the party, you'll definitely be let in and you'll have some instant social status.

Cheers!
 
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How the F would we know? BTW, having no friends there, might make you appear creepy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Go to prom with a date. Go to the afterparty without one. Going to prom dateless is a cry to be the butt of everyone's jokes. I don't know what it is in Norway, but why take chances?
 
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If you don't have a date dont go. Prom is just a bunch of couples. GAY!
 
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